Answer, especially guys? :((?

Question

For me, it's hard from lover to be friend, am i correct?

My ex-bf and I still contact each other and I don't know how much he loves his new gf.

He still treats me well, but he kept avoiding when I say 'I LOVE YOU'

when i asked to be friend, he seems doesnt want.

I offer myself to be his gf again, i offer myself to be his friend but he doesnt want that! why?and what should i do?

Answer 1

dont talk to him as much, patience is a word you must learn... if he likes you h**l come back to you, if he doesn he wont, hes only one guy out of 4 billion on this earth.. waht are the odds you cant find someone else? well i hope he comes back to you... if not good luck!!

Answer 2

because he's over you.  you should move on too.

Answer 3

it sounds like he just wants to keep you as a casual friend, the person that you text out of the blue when your bored or something. It sounds like he is over you and doesn't want to be good friends because it may be too difficult to do so. tread lightly in these situations. I say wait it out and see what happens.

Answer 4

he just want nookies, he's scared if he's ur "friend" he wont get any, he's just scared of committment, he wants "all" of the girls, not just one, stay awaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay

Answer 5

freindship is a very curious thing when it comes to an ex. Do a deeper personal inventory and find out if you are mis-labeling you intents. Sometimes being a friend means to be one at a distance. Non of my friends would interfere with my new relationships even if their intentions were good. Unless of course it was obvious the new relationship was bad. Occupy yourself with new things and people, be careful not to obstruct a new relationship.  

Answer 6

Finally someone who understands, you cant be friends with someone you love! He's probably afraid of getting hurt again, trust me inside your still the most important person in his life & he knows it too. He's just not willing to tell you.

Answer 7

If he's your ex, he's more used to being a lover than a friend and wants nothing more. If you want to be his friend, and he rejects it, then put some laxatives in his milk and leave him.