Any tips for us?

Question

my fiance is currently 5 wks pregnant with our first baby.

we are so excited for the baby to come but we were wondering if you had any tips on how we can bond better and just become closer.

also what are some good tips that i can help her relax and just feel better throughout the pregnancy.

also what are some good positions that me and her can do while having s*x that will be comfortable for her. i want to make her feel the best she can while she isnt feeling so great.

thanks a lot!

Answer 1

I loved it when my husband rubbed my back at night without my having to ask.  Tummy rubs are nice too (which lead to her being in the mood..lol)  He talked to my belly alot which made me realize that he loved our baby as much as I did.  He used to have a bath ready for me everyday when I got home from work (we worked different schedules alot) and came to as many appointments as possible.  All these things made me realize that I couldn't ask for a better husband.

Just be prepared, that alot of the time, your wife may cringe at the thought of having s*x...this is very normal as hormones are running strong.  I found at certain points in pregnancy, it hurt alot for even his finger to touch down there...and other times, I wanted s*x all the time.  It varied.  I found the easiest position once I was too big to do it face to face or to be on my belly was to lean over the side of the bed.  Plus, it's great for the guy...you can stare at her butt..lol

Answer 2

What my guy and I are doing to bond is to finalize any fight we have right away. We try not to argue or complain and we spend lots of time together when ever we can doing what we both like to do.  If I don't want to do what he wants, I'll sacrifice and same goes for him. He relaxes me by not starting fights, listening to me, and helping me around the house and with our animals. Good positions? You have to ask her and make sure she tells you if it hurts or not. Open communication is a must. Good luck!

Answer 3

My husband never liked to have s*x (he felt there was a "third party"), but there are pregnancy websites that do have the information on them and positions and such.

Things to help her and make her feel good:

a warm bath that you ran

a massage

flowers just because

buy books related to the pregnancy and read them to her

picking names together

just cuddling for an evening

chocolates

feeding her cravings (LOL)