Are all Virgo women this way?

Question

My mom is a Virgo, and i find she say to you something else and to another person she will say something else. Like i had a fight with my husband and first it look like she was on my side. But when she talked to my husband she talk differntly about me i was really angry about this and this isn't the first time she did this to me. When my father was alive she did the same thing. I had a boyfriend when i was 17 yrs old and she told my dad that i play truant what wasn't true. She also told my dad then that i was unmanageable that was also a lie. She said to my dad that he has to do something about this to let me marry [i'm half Pakistani ] And yeah i got married but wasn't forced to marry him. But the thing is i really wanted to study further but because of my mom i couldn't do it. Now the question is are all Virgo women this way? I'm a Leo.

Answer 1

A typical Virgo usually doesn't behave like that. It's an Earth sign, so they should be down-to-earth and stick to the truth. Maybe she's kind of a people-pleaser, she's with you once to make you happy and then the next she's with the other person to make them happy.

OR, maybe she has this "detached judgment". She sees the good and bad in every side, but to each side she only tells the good. Depending on how you look at it, this may seem imparting (good) or untrustworthy (bad).

If you want to blame astrology, check out her whole birth chart. Maybe she's got an undesirable combination of signs and planets. But yeah, Leo and Virgo don't get along too easily.

Answer 2

My mom's a leo and I'm a virgo. virgo and leo can't get along. Cosmic clash. but I'm definitely not like your mom, I say the same thing to everyone. She might have split personality.

Answer 3

no. all mutable signs have the potential to be this way. but they are not ALL this way. the reason you really don't understand is because you are a fixed sign and you are also not compatible.

leo is compatible with:

aries, libra, gemini and sagitarius.

being a fixed sign you are unchanging, you would never change your opinion or back down or play 2 sides of a situation. but, virgo is mutable and so they will at times. some virgo can seem like traitors seem like they are only out to help themselves by being on the winning team only.

the thing is, virgo is mutable. they can see all aspects to an idea or opinion. they value each opinion as equally valid and they can sypathize with everyone. the problem here is that she is taking it to an extreme and playing both teams and you feel betrayed. I wouldn't worry too much about it. it is just in her nature. she doesn't want to make trouble she just doesn't realize she is doing it! she is trying to understand both sides of the arguement and she really is just trying to help keep the peace between the 2 of you, but doesn't realize the drama she is causing. the best thing to do is to talk to your husband directly and don't give her the opportunity to fuel his flame and become more angry with you.

Answer 4

virgos are the worst compare to the once i loved, as far as i know they are very cridical people, they tell off on other people. it's just who they are and the once i known i rather not be around them because they are very negative people.

i suggest you take care for who she is and be a ward of when she is critizing you and try not to let it get to you because she is who she is and no one can change that but herself.

try to communicate well with your husband, tell him you guy will have to work things out on your own first.