Are these weird thoughts?

Question

I'm 15 and I'm really excited to have a baby! Obviously I'm not financially or emotionally ready now, but I can't wait until I have kids!

Is this weird? Or just natural feelings for a girl?

Answer 1

Those are weird feelings. Most girls who have gotten pregnant at my school are down trought because their boyfriends won't support them. I'm not so sure why you're bubbly about it, it's a big responsibility and not like a dog either.

Answer 2

I am only guessing, but your like the calm before a storm and your parents are in for a ride. Wow, take care.

Answer 3

Those are normal thoughts, alot of people look forward to having kids... But please do NOT act on those feelings.

wait till you're at least 21, and that's still kind of young hah.

Answer 4

its natural but please wait until youre settled with the right person,have a good life and want to share it with a child

Answer 5

Its absolutely natural. A women is born with a motherly nature, shes meant to have babies, I am 20 now, and have been waiting for the right time to have kids since I was like 17. I'll have them when I'm ready , maybe a couple years down the line.

Its perfectly natural to have thought about having your own babies, but don't take any decisions in a hurry.  

Answer 6

ive thought about that and im excited to but i dont think that its weird

i know that i wont have kids for at least 10 years so i just like to think into the future

Answer 7

it's not weird. it's VERY weird.

i'm 15 and i hate children. i feel like i won't have any children ever.

Answer 8

i think it's natural i'm 13 and i dream of having twin baby girls. of course i'm not going to go out and get pregnant, i'll be sure to wait until i'm married, financially, emotionally, and spirtually ready.

i think it's a part of growing up. every girl dreams of her wedding and the perfect guy and the beautiful children that come after.

Answer 9

It's not weird.. you're just coming to terms with being a woman and the desire to have a child is one of those things...

some people have it and some don't...

I don't and I'm 23

Answer 10

its not weird at all.. having a baby is the wonderful you can ever feel..but there's a right time for that..your still young and please love and enjoy it because being young is once in a lifetime only.and having baby is a lifetime commitment.=)  

Answer 11

All That Is created you to populate Planet Earth. .Freedom of choice is left to the manufacturer.as to when where how and who.with.  

Answer 12

are you pregnant? is that why you're excited?

or are you just excited in general?

if you're just plain excited for your future,

especially having kids..

then thats perfectly normal.

dont' worry =)

Answer 13

no its not wierd at all lol it is actualy completely natural and "spiritual" as some relegiouse maniacs call it.. you  are at the age were youre body is more sencitive to change and you are anticipating the nxt step in ur life.. but try to wait lol!you will probrobly never hear this frm another guy but..fifteen is not the age to start planning for a baby..wait a while you are still a child urself

Answer 14

It's natural, but make sure you get your priorities in order-School, college, career, family

Answer 15

i am 16 and i have had the same thoughts :)

i just want my child to have what i didnt.

Answer 16

No I don't think it's weird to feel the urge to have a child.  You just have to be careful that you remain aware that having a child at your age just isn't practical.  If you start dating or become sexually active, this urge may increase.  Always keep in your mind that you still have a whole life to live on your own and there will be plenty of time to have kids in the future. Enjoy the time you have for yourself, so you can be a really great mom down the road.

Answer 17

You have a deep maternal instinct. You will be a great mom one day.

Answer 18

no totally not weird. we are exposed to these thing when we are young like having a baby doll to carry around so its completely natural

Answer 19

No it's natural.

Answer 20

It's natural but this is just part of growing up and realizing you are able to create your own family. Seriously, wait about 10 years before you really start trying to start a family. You don't want to be 30 and have a teenaged kid.

Answer 21

super normal just like when I was 15 ... but just wait its better to have a carrier to give the baby all you want and all he or she needs... I am 26 married and might try next year :)

Answer 22

You aren't pregnant now are you?  If you are not pregnant yet, you need to wait until you are older to have a baby.  A baby is FOREVER, and really ties you down.  The mothers can tell you more about that though, as I'm 31 years old and I plan on never having children.

As for if its natural for a girl, I don't think I'm the best person to answer that, as I've never wanted children.  Ever.   Many women do want children, however, and it is natural for grown women to want children.

For right now though, just have fun being a teenager.  You have the next 60 years or so to be responsible and grown up, don't rush it.

Answer 23

I am a guy so I don't know if it's normal or not, but please, please do not act on your feelings.  My mom gave birth to me while in college and she was way too young and immature to know what she was getting into.  My parents got married because of me and divorced because of me soon thereafter.  My life should have never been, they weren't equiped to deal with a child and sadly my life has been a disaster.  I don't blame them, I just wish they had thought about the magnitude of having a baby, not just accepting it as a novelty because once the newness wore off, there was no good that came out of it for them or me.

I know this isn't a direct answer to your question, but I just had to respond.

You sound smart, good luck!

Answer 24

At 15? Not unless your actually going to have one!! A lot of girls with a mature attitude and motherly personality cant wait to get older to have kids...that's the key thought...wait till you get older and are emotionally and financially ready!! But its not weird!

Answer 25

I'm 16 and would like a baby. But there is no way in h**l I want to give up my education and my life for it. I think I can manage to wait some years.

Answer 26

It's normal to have those thoughts because your are going through alot of hormonal changes, I am 17 I would know! but yes since your body is changing and developing you are also developing your "nesting instincts" these feelings your getting are the developing part of you that are gearing up for your childbearing years, your peak of development will hit at about 18 - 19, I know your getting these feelings right now but you have to resist and not do anything til you get ur self set in life, high school is not easy with a baby, as I know at least 6 girls right now at my school that had to drop out and get a GED cause of their babies.... stay on track finish school, get that god job and then think about kids... you will appreciate it SO much more since you would have the means to actually care for a child....

another thing to think about it the younger you have a baby the more you body has to adapt to it and you may look or feel different for a LONG time afterwards... the best time to have a baby is between 18 - 35 after that is goes downhill... and right now a baby would be very hard for ur body, chances for miscarriage and birthdefects are at large...

use ur noggin think about it.....

Answer 27

I feel the same im 13.

If I ever like hold a relatives baby they are so adorable to see and feel a real baby. I used to be obsessed with dolls pretending they were babys. I want to be about 25 when I have my first child.

x

Answer 28

I think every girl goes through this but please please please don't go through with getting pregnant. You are much too young and have a future ahead of you. Give your life a chance before you bring another one into the world.

Answer 29

Some people are just born already excited about having their own kids, it's not weird.  Just please don't do it at anytime when your age starts with a 1.

Answer 30

Natural to want a kid

smart to know you need to wait

babies are people not toys

and you need to grow up before

taking on the responsibility of another human being

Answer 31

That is very normal.Some women are born to be great mothers in the future.Sounds like you are very exited to get to get there,thats great, but focus on being a kid yourself. The more you experience as a child, will carry over to your children.Kids are a big deal,you wanna be prepared for this wonderful gift..So have fun and enjoy life!!!!!!!!!!