Baby daddy help????????????????

Question

i have a baby 4 justin 4rm baldwin hills and i havent told him about itwe dont even talk anymore how do itell him?it was a 1 night stand he prob doesnt remember me and i need help plz dont tell anyone else

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Answer 1

honestly i would just move on with your life, taking care of your child. Adding him in only courses problems between the two of you... like child support and custody battles and your child will be caught in the middle. Unless you want child support from him? If that is the case just send him a letter or email, saying your pregnant/had a child and your pretty sure its his so you want to have a DNA test done, should he not respond to this, get a lawyer (legal aid) and a court order to get his dna.

Answer 2

tell him. if he knows he can pay child support and have visiting rights. i would want to know

Answer 3

Call him and ask if you can meet.  Find somewhere that you will both feel comfortable.  Tell him that you are sorry that you have kept this from him but you didn&#039;t know how to tell him.  Tell him that he is a dad and that if he wants you will agree to a paternity test.   Tell him what you do or don&#039;t need or want from him.  If you don&#039;t want anything then tell him that.  

I know this is hard but it is something you need to do.  The longer you wait the harder it will be.  Also the longer you wait the harder it will be for him to accept.

good luck  

Answer 4

you needa tell him...

Answer 5

u got to tell him

its bad for a baby living with out  da

do it for ur baby

Answer 6

You really need to tell him for the baby&#039;s sake. No matter what the consequence he really needs to know. Maybe he will come around and me a father figure.

Answer 7

need to tell him some how

Answer 8

tell him the father needs to know

Answer 9

did you contact BET yet.

Answer 10

Tell him. It&#039;s the best and the right thing to do.

Answer 11

ITS BEST THAT YUU TELL HIM

BEKUZ ITSZ h**l LIVIN WITHOUT A FATHER

TELL HIM FOR YOUR BABY

Answer 12

GURL STOP LYIN JUSTIN AINT YO BABY DADDY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!