Bad dreams about cheating?

Question

so i been having dreams that my boyfriend is cheatin on me in front of my face and he confesses to me hes been cheating and its not guna stop, at the same time he has dreams that he is cheating on me like having s*x with other girls, those girls who are in his dreams happen to be the girls who i hate from school...what can this mean? is it bad?

Answer 1

I have had dreams like that and I know for a fact my bf would never cheat on me. I believe its all a matter about how you feel about yourself and your insecurities. Its normal, but I think you should learn to trust a little more. Unless, that is, you have reason to believe otherwise.

Answer 2

That u guys aren't very confident in eachother and that u dont really trust him u need to trust him a lil more cuz if u dont he's not gonna want to b with u cuz u cant trust him enough. And he prob. feels like he's on a very tight leash with u which would explain his dream.

Answer 3

dont take me seriously cause i dont really know but for ur boyfriend, its normal for guys to hv dreams like that (wet dreams. learned it in flash. ik i had to learn guy stuff 2 ew!). as for u.......mayb ur being a little too insecure, u hv to trust ur bf more.

Answer 4

It is not a dream girl, thats a NIGHTMARE! You are obviously both worrying about that happening

Answer 5

I doubt anything is going on. If he told you he was haveing dreams of this, he wouldnt have anything to hide. He wouldnt want to bring it up or else you'd start getting cautious or paranoid.

Answer 6

You guys worry too much. One thing to remember is that if it happens it will hurt, but by no means will it kill you. It can only make you grow.

Go on vacation with him. show him that you are the only one for him and I am sure he will return the favor.

Good luck

Answer 7

dreams are supposedly your subconsious mind thinking about things that you are worried bout. You are obviously both scared of each other cheating and perhaps are a bit self consious, u are scared that they might find someone hotter. If you hate these girls from school, they are probably b*tches that think that they are really hot and cool and are totally in love with them selves, which deep down makes you scared and if he cheated with anyone, youd hate it to be with them the most. So its your worst fear. You need to talk this out OPENLY with your bf and admit to any fears you hav. They may have even been subconsious fears that you didnt realise so you will have to think alot bout it. Im sure you can work it out. Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

Its not realy bad, just a little strange. Might wana talk to somebody about it, especially if those thoughts are effecting your everyday life.

Jackmac :P~

Answer 9

To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem.

Answer 10

Alot of the time your subconscience will pick up on things that you are not aware of through dreams. This here could be the case or you could just be paranoid. Either way it seems like this topic needs futher investigation, confront him but try to do it subtly because he may get affended if he is not cheating or on the flip side if he is cheating he will get all defensive and then cover up his cheating. Good luck and I hope your bo is been faithful.

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Answer 11

Don't let others put you down for asking this question. Some times your subliminal concise is coming out through your dreams. Sometimes it's just stress causing odd dreams. It is weird that both of you are having the same type dream. I dreamed my now ex was cheating on me and it ended up being true. But that doesn't mean it's the same for you. These girls who are upsetting you may be causing you to have bad dreams. Try to ignore them. Life is to short. Hopefully these are just bad dreams. Take your boyfriend out to do fun things. It doesn't have to be expensive. Go to a park and have a picnic, or to the beach if that's available to you. Just anything that keeps your relationship young and makes for a happy day. Happiness will chase those bad dreams away. Best wishes