Boyfriend acting shady?

Question

Well,

He doesn't talk to me on the phone at night anymore.

Barely texts me anymore.

Lies about little things and gets really mad when I get upset about it.

Acts shady about everything.

Uses his parents as excuses for EVERYTHING.

Like if I call him and he is on the other line the only person he is ever talking to is his Grandma, Who never calls his phone when I'm around.

And his parents tend to take his phone a lot.

Wen he is 17. :-/

And he deletes all his messages or his parents 'take his phone' before he comes to see me because he is grounded for NO apearant reason.

I ask him to take pictures of himself at the places he claims he is and I get no reply until I send another message.

I DONT KNOW WHATS HAPPENING.

What do I do to get over trust issues?

How do I find what he is hiding?

HELP

Answer 1

There might be cheating involved... But regardless, there is an obvious communication/trust problem.

You can either stick around, or leave. If it bothers you, leave. There are better people.

Answer 2

I dont want to go straight to the conclusion that he is cheating, because he might not be.

You should tell him you need to have a talk with him. A sit down one, just sit there and say "Right. whats going on?"

Tell him its not making you so sure that he wants to be with you anymore.

xx

Answer 3

Your getting played as we speak.  He is acting this way because he is with someone else and is too cowardly to dump you.  When guys act as you describe, its time to move on.  

Answer 4

it sounds like there is another girl in the picture!