Came of pill and confused?

Question

Came off the pill around 20th June, got a period straight away but just for few days. I have a long term bf so am sexually active but we use condoms.

Soo after i came off pill we have s*x without condoms couple of times but before he came, withdrew and put condom on. We just forgot as we are so used to not using one, i was on the pill for 3 years. My period are normally on time, never been late, even before i was on the pill.

i have not had a period not since June and its the 23rd august. I was due around 30th July or before.

I also have had very slight cramping through out the time i have been waiting on period and keep thinking it is coming but never does.

i also have sore b***s and slight cramping most of the time since july, kept thinking it was my period coming but it wasnt.

Just wondering how long it took people to get a period when they came of pill and if it was more than a month or not.

im getting really confused now and hate not knowing when its coming.

Answer 1

From what you just described, I would be safe and get a pregnancy test. If you had s*x while not being on the pill; even if he pulled out, you could have gotten pregnant due to pre-***. And if you are that late with your period and have sore b***s, the cramping can be pregnancy cramping. Its  a cramping called implantation cramping, meaning you are in the beginning stages of pregnancy.

It could also just be that you screwed up your cycle and your body is confused and trying to put itself back on a natural schedule. You should get a pregnancy test and stop having s*x right now until you find out what is going on. But it seems to me that you may be pregnant.