Cancer?!? im scared?

Question

my papa just got through cancer for a third time, and now he was just diagnosed with bone cancer, he is 83 years old and is too old and skinny to be able to go through chemo... what happens now.. im really scared

Answer 1

I feel for you!  My Grandma had to be in a mannor for 7 weeks.  Constantly going back and forth in the hospital.  We just let her go...it was really bad for seven weeks straight.  She was soo weak.  If you look in your heart, or yourself you will know if they are staying or leaving.  Be mature on this and strong!  You are NOT the only one that has had this happen to them.  Think about 9-11, all the wars, and everything.  Just do what you can, make sure you have some time with your Grandpa.  He can still live through this but no one can guarantee anything.  Take it slowly.  Accept it.  There's nothing you can do now, it's okay, you are not alone.  Talk to someone about it.    Good luck!  

Answer 2

It depends how bad the cancer is, he may have to go through chemo or he may not. Just because he is 83 does not mean he will die now. Be strong sweetie <3 xxxx

Answer 3

I'm so so sorry to hear that your papa has this horrible thing called cancer again.  I hate to say this but it just might be time to let him go, it's going to be very hard on him once again, however if it's not to bad may be they can do cemo and this time it will work. All in all just give him lots of love and tell him all that you ever wanted to say. Hold him and love on him, that's what he needs right now.  I pray God shows you the right direction. God Bless you and your family