Confused.. A Little help please.x?

Question

I'm really confused and need some help..

ok well basically I'm a dancer and i train 3 days a week for 16 hours in total .. i train on a thursday friday and Saturday and also do some additional lessons on a tuesday.. now I'm going into year nine and it seems like alto to deal with ,..i also do guitar lessons for half an hour once a week at school.. now the dance school i train at i have to work very hard at as I'm on the professional course. so practice is key..but along with Sat's this year for year nine and guitar all the time its getting difficult, my mum also recently got married and i hatee my step dad i have known him for 9 years but yet i still don't get on with him cos e trys far to hard to replace my dad . i want to know what i should do to help get my life sorted i know it doesn't seem like alot but it sure is when it gets dumped on your shoulders... ive decided to bee very organized this year but has anyone else got any tips?

i would really appreciate it .

Answer 1

Unless you want to become a professional dancer, I suggest that you drop the dance lessons.  It sounds like the rewards you are deriving from these lessons are not usurping the negative aspects, such as consuming valuable study time.

Answer 2

I think that maybe you have taken on too much at the moment, this shows in your inability to cope with all of this at once. You should either give up the guitar lessons, or cut down the dancing a bit because otherwise you will not enjoy any of it  because of trying to cram too much in whilst you are in year 9. Also, where you are unhappy with your stepfather, this isn't helping you to concentrate, you need to maybe think about yourself a bit more and reorganise your time, good luck...