Crush has girlfriend? 10 points?

Question

I've liked this guy for about 10 months now, and about 4 months ago, he started going out with this girl. Before that though, he kept trying to make me like him even more (like that's possible). Like one time when we were walking home from our bus stop, he stopped all of a sudden and I think he was expecting me to trip and accidentally hug him or something, because he couldnt think of anything to say when I didn't trip. But I didn't realize it then. I just realized it recently, but now it's too late because he has a girlfriend. I heard they're still together, and now I'm getting a little scared that they're never going to break up. We're going into 7th grade this year. And my crush has a twin brother, and i recently started having a very minor crush on his brother, too. My crush's brother is single, but one or two of my besties like my crush's brother. Sorry if this is confusing, I just don't know what to do anymore because this whole crush-has-a-girlfriend thing is making me sad and I'm not sure if I should go any farther with his brother because i don't wanna lose my besties over a guy...but i still really like my crush as like a BGF (best guy friend) AND a crush..help me!!!

Answer 1

Since he has a gf, don't do anything like trying to break them up. Just get to know him really well. Try to become a close friend because at that young of an age, their relationship isn't going to last long. So when they break up, you'll be right there by his side.

There isn't too much you can do besides that. Stay away from his brother since your friends already have dibs on him lol and even if you began dating him, you would keep thinking about his brother which would be weird.

Personally I think you should wait at least until 8th grade to start dating, preferably high school.. but it's your choice. Just remember most guys your age aren't as developed as you and will mostly look for a physical relationship. That's why I mentioned waiting for high school.