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Depressed litte girl (sucide thoughts)?

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i feel depressed every second i look at me. Im concerned about people thinking im mean because my other friends say im mean and they saymy other friends dont actually like me. I have at home problems, my parents are divorced and my mom and brother fight a lot. my mom cusses at me and my brother hits me. and i dont want counceling but i need a reason to live, The only person that loves me is my dad, but he has $ex with a lot of girls and i dont like that. Please help me

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  1. Go ahead and talk to a teacher or school counselor.  It'll be hard, but it'll be worth it.  Remember that you are worth it.  One thing I tell myself before I do something like that that's really hard for me is that my life sucks so much, it really can't make things worse, right?

    You'll feel a lot better when you talk to somebody.

    (((Hugs)))


  2. You need to see a doctor before this develops into something more serious.  Speak with your mother, let her know that you need to see a doctor about your depression.

  3. if ur brother is like reeelly hitting u like abuse i mean call sum hotline or something and try getting counceling  

  4. oh dearie, tell someone at school! you need to have a conversation with a teacher you trust, a friend's parent, or a guidance counselor. I hope everything works out for you!

  5. tell your father your concerns and see a psychiatrist you may dislike but it can be necessary. Suicide is never the answer it only makes things worse

  6. I try not to worry about being mean, because if you focus too much on not offending people you'll start to censor everything you want to say and become really shy and awkward.  Just find some friends with thicker skin!    The most obvious advice I can give you is that you're going through a period in your life that's turbulent and painful for most people.  You'll get some perspective soon.  Also, counseling really isn't that bad!

  7. I wish all the breeders would think about the future of their kids before they had them.  How many children live miserable lives because  their  parents chose to have them even though they don't know nothing about parenting and don't qualify to be parents to even a mouse? Parents like your mom are the reason we have this miserable rude criminal generation of kids these days. Someone like your mom -if she deserves to be called a mom- should've been sterilized so she could never have children to make them suffer like you are. I don't know how old you are but you need to find someone else to live with, maybe your dad or someone who won't treat you like c**p. If your dad has s*x with different women but he treats you nicely then that's not a reason not to live with him. Just don't learn that behaviour from him. Maybe you need to call the police or a crisis line and tell them about your problems.

  8. Sometimes we all get that way you just have to step back and look at he upside.  Not to diminish your problems (I have to do this my self sometimes).  Your probably sitting at home chillin in the ac watchin tv playing on the computer, no matter what happens with these things you Know tomorrow you wont be hungry or homeless.  Really life is pretty good.  Could be a lot worse there are homeless people out there with no legs and nothin to eat. Your probably just thinkin to much.  As for your dad ease up on him a little hes probably trying to deal with his problems to in a different way (so hes not thinking to much).  The best reason to live is so the ones that hate you don't win.

  9. tell your doctor

    tell your teacher

    tell your friend's mom.

    Talk about it long enough and loud enough and to enough people and someone will help you.

    Counseling will help you to like yourself and guide you in how to act around other people -- you haven't had very good role models so far in your life

  10. These people are obviously not your friends if they say you are mean. they only say that other people say that because they want you to feel like they are trustworty and other aren't. you can always call a help line such as samaritans (08457 90 90 90). they have got me through some difficult times. Good Luck

  11. hey, im depressesd too :[ im currently undergoung outpatient therapy. trustme, there is hope :]

    If your feelings become so overwhelming that you can’t see any solution besides harming yourself or others, you need to get help right away. And yet, asking for help when you’re in the midst of such strong emotions can be really tough. If talking to a stranger might be easier for you, call 1-800-273-TALK to speak in confidence to someone who can understand and help you deal with your feelings.

    In the meantime, the following suggestions can help get you through until you feel ready to talk to someone:

    There is ALWAYS another solution, even if you can’t see it right now. Many kids who have attempted suicide (and survived) say that they did it because they mistakenly felt there was no other solution to a problem they were experiencing. At the time, they could not see another way out – but in truth, they didn’t really want to die. Remember that no matter how horribly you feel, these emotions will pass.

    Having thoughts of hurting yourself or others does not make you a bad person. Depression can make you think and feel things that are out of character. No one should judge you or condemn you for these feelings if you are brave enough to talk about them.

    If your feelings are uncontrollable, tell yourself to wait 24 hours before you take any action. This can give you time to really think things through and give yourself some distance from the strong emotions that are plaguing you. During this 24-hour period, try to talk to someone – anyone - as long as they are not another suicidal or depressed person.  Call a hotline or talk to a friend. What do you have to lose?

    If you’re afraid you can’t control yourself, make sure you are never alone. Even if you can’t verbalize your feelings, just stay in public places, hang out with friends or family members, or go to a movie – anything to keep from being by yourself and in danger.

    Above all, do not do anything that could result in permanent damage or death to yourself or others.  Remember, suicide is a "permanent solution to a temporary problem." Help is available. All you need to do is take that first step and reach out.

    Depression is not your fault, and you didn’t do anything to cause it. However, you do have some control over feeling better. Staying connected to friends and family, sharing your feelings with someone you trust, and making healthy lifestyle decisions can all have a hugely positive impact on your mood.

    Remember that you are not alone

    You might be surprised at how many other teens suffer from depression. You are not alone, and neither is your depression a hopeless case. Even though it can feel like depression will never lift, it eventually will—and with proper treatment and healthy choices, that day can come even sooner. ?In the meantime, you might need therapy or medication to help you while you sort out your feelings. Look into your treatment options with your parents. If medication is being considered, do your research before making a decision, as some antidepressants used for adults can actually make teens feel worse.

    Talking to your parents about depression

    As Will Smith once said, "parents just don’t understand." Understatement of the year, huh? It may seem like there’s no way your parents will be able to help, especially if they are always nagging you or getting angry about your behavior. The truth is, parents hate to see their kids hurting. They may feel frustrated because they don’t understand what is going on with you or know how to help. Many parents don’t know enough about depression to recognize it in their own kids. So, it may be up to you to educate them. You can refer them to this site, or look for further information online. Letting your parents know that you are feeling depressed will probably motivate them to get you the help you need.

    If your parents are abusive in any way, or if they have problems of their own that makes it difficult for them to take care of you, find another adult you trust (such as a relative, teacher, counselor, or coach). This person can either help you approach your parents, or direct you toward the support you need. If you truly don’t have anyone you can talk to, refer to our resources at the end of this article. There are many hotlines, services, and support groups that can help. No matter what, talk to someone, especially if you are having any thoughts of harming yourself or others. Asking for help is the bravest thing you can do, and the first step on your way to feeling better.

    If you are suffering and don’t know where to turn...

    Call the Nineline’s 24-hour hotline for children and teens at 1-800-999-9999. It’s free, confidential, and always available, so call if you need to talk to somebody or want information on where to get help in your area.

    Best of luck to you!

  12. You seriously need to go to counseling. You seem like you need somebody to talk to, and give you advice on how to handle your depression and anxiety. Just go talk to your guidance counselor, and may-be they can help you out or set you up with a specialist that deals in your problems. There's psychologist just for children and some that specialize in helping kids of divorced parents. Only a professional can really help you make sense of all of this.

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