Did he molest her? PLEASE HELP

Question

My friend told me a kind of scary secret. She said once when she was seven or eight, her babysitter who was like eighteen or so said "I'll let you touch my p***s if you let me touch her v****a". She didnt get what was happening so she giggled and was like "No" and then he put her hand on his private parts and made her touch. She says she doesnt really remember what happened before which I dont know why. How could you forget? She has kept this in for seven years and I'm the only one who knows. She said I can never ever tell seriously. So did he 'molest' her? And how should I help? I feel kind of helpless and shocked... so thanks so much!

Love Haleigh<3

Answer 1

He did, but unless she wants to tell you can&#039;t help much if it&#039;s not going on anymore. I was being molested and told a friend, she told a guidance counselor and authorities got involved. You could if you wanted. I was grateful that it stopped. You could tell her parents. She might hate you at first, but she could stop it for happening to others if they get him,

Answer 2

TELL TELL TELL..shame on him for doing that.. and for her not wanting to ruin his life... HE RUINED HERS!!!!!!!! and many others I AM SURE!!

Please speak to her NOT ANYONE ELSE but her.. convince her to please TELL... She wont regret it and 1 million pounds will be lifting off her chest!!  Trust me..

I was 9 and I told when I was 16 and that b*****d molested 13 little girls and now he is rotting in prison!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I DONT REGRET IT ONE BIT

Answer 3

Yes he did. She needs to tell someone-like her parents. He could be doing this to other girls-who knows. But if he is it needs to be recognized. Usually people like that don&#039;t only have 1 victim.  

Answer 4

If he didn&#039;t touch her, it&#039;s not molestation, but he DID make her touch him, and that is sexual assault.

She needs to tell someone. No one like him should be out walking with that under his belt.  

Answer 5

this is not your fault.

even if you told, not much could be done now.

Don&#039;t feel any way, and don&#039;t put guilt on your self all the time..\

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Answer 6

If he touched her then yes, he molested her, if he made her touch him, its assault. I suggest you tell her parents, he could be doing it to other kids.

Answer 7

Wrong Sarah! Molestation and sexual assault are not exclusive.