Do you think we can last....?

Question

So, first of all.. the main question is that I'm wondering if my relationship can last after my gf moves to France. But... it's complicated. First... we're only 14. We both didn't think we were bi or lesbians.. we just.. clicked.. and it just kind of happened. We were together for about 2 weeks, with our parents knowing, and her mom disaproving of our relationship. So she "broke up with me" pretty much breaking my heart. The next time we saw eachother she said that she was soo sorry, and didn't want to actually break up with me, she just needed our parents to think we were seperated. This is because our parents were no longer allowing us to see eachother alone anymore, because of our relationship. But now as friends we can see eachother alone. Anyway, she's moving in 3 weeks to France. She will probably be there until University, so she can move. We've both told eachother that we would love to spend the rest of our lives with eacthother, but it will be hard if she lives in a completely different country.. and we are only 14.

What do you think? Do you think it can last... or it's just some teen thing. I personally think I have experienced true love... and I know how weird that sounds coming from an almost 15 year old.. but I think it's true. I don't know about her though.. she says she has.. but I'm not sure. But yeah, just looking for opinions, and maybe advice.

Thanks :)

Answer 1

the only one that will know if it will last are you two, personally i dont believe on an love appropriate age and dont doubt that you two are in love. but it is hard to maintain any relationship, let alone one where many people disapprove but if its real and you both are willing then it should last. and with the advances in technology you both can easily keep in touch. good luck

Answer 2

why don't you go out with a BOY

Answer 3

OMG that's so sweet! You have an awesome story. and i can totally understand the whole parent thing. I think age has nothing to do with love..my parents were 17 and 18 when they fell in love and they are 48 and 47 now and even more in love than they were then. Its how u handle it. My gf just went to college a week and a half ago and its 6 hrs away.her parents are really strict and doesn't have a car to come see me.So its going to be so hard.and it already has been.I miss her like crazy! But i love her and am willing to do anything to be with her for the rest of my life.So if u love someone that much.It will all work out. true love will always make a way.

Answer 4

i don't think it would be easy to maintain since u guys are only 14....