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Does being shy make you boring?

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Do people have the right to pass judgement on you because your quiet?

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  1. Passing judgment is a choice, not a right.  The impression you give is how people will perceive you.  He/she is quiet, humble, shy, introverted....attarctive, unattractive, overwieght, skinny, and so on.  Making ones opinion of another public is a where this becomes an issue.

    The fact that you may be shy does not make you boring.  It may however be an impedance to others getting to know who you really are because you may not be as socially active as others.  I know, I used to be very introverted.  I spoke to people I was comfortable with, mostly when they spoke to me first and I was not able to maintain a conversation on my own.  I soon realized that if I wanted to have more fun and achieve more out of life I needed to speak up and go after the  things I wanted.  How can I expect to get a date with the girl I lilke if Im too timid to go talk to her...right?

    So make a choice yourself.  Choose to change the aspects of your character that you want or need to improve.  It takes time, patience, and determination but you can do it and the difference is worthwhile.  


  2. No they don't . Honestly I find shy people intriguing. I fell in love with my husband because he was so quite & mysterious. Once you meet a special person you open up to only them & thats what is s**y.

  3. just because your quiet doesn't mean anything. ppl should get to know you better before they judge you I mean of course your going to be shy around ppl that you barely know but it'll eventually change. so just have them get to know you better. never judge a book by it's cover. good luck =]

  4. Being shy does not make you boring... You should respond to that person who passes judgment on the quiet, that they should watch out for the quiet ones.... Quiet peope are more dangerous, alot more dangerous than the loud ones, as they do not bite louder than they bark!

  5. Being shy doesn't mean at all that you are boring!!!

    You may be shy but have a ROCKING personality!

    Just try not to be so shy you can't even talk to anyone because then nobody will know what kind of personality you have, so step out of your shell and Be You.

  6. Everyone is entitled to an opinion. I don't think people should assume other things about people just because they are quiet but, being shy and quiet says a lot about your personality.  

  7. No they do not. When I was younger I was very shy. When the right person comes along you will find , It does not matter. They will love you for who you are, not all people like loud mouthed girl's or boy's.

    Scotty

  8. technically they don't have tie right.

    But when your quiet, they isn't much conversation.

    So yes, when you are shy it is boring to talk to you.

    but you can always un work on the shyness. It took me a while.

    But al you have to do is think to yourself, just make conversation, and SAY WHAT'S ON YOUR MIND.

    that's what i do [:

    and it works perfectly.

  9. well human being from the first day that was created learned to judge others because they were different from him... Some people are not enough mature yet so it is a bit difficult from them to shut their mouth and let the other's judge their blablablablablablababla .

    ( : beeing shyy is cutee.  

  10. no. noone can say that you are a boring person if they do not even know your personality, which they obviously do not if you are as quiet as they say. They are simply too lazy to take the time to get to know someone, and are already programmed to do such stupid stuff as judge people on first appearance. Just ignore them, and stick by your friends that have already proved themselves worthy of your inner chatterbox.

  11. No one has the right to make a decision about a person without taking the time to know them well.  However, people do it all the time, so don't be surprised if people think a shy person is dull, boring, and not worth getting to know.  A lot of people are just that way.

  12. Well it depends. Like if you are so shy that you rarely talk, then yes that could be boring. But some poeple are to not shy that they are annoying. Find something in between. =]


  13. no, as long as thats not all there is to you.

    being shy actually makes it more exciting when you decide to break out of your shell, as opposed to someone who has always been outgoing.

    and if anything, being shy makes you mysterious, which is not boring at all.

  14. I'm very shy.

    But only at first, no matter what you do, people will pass judgment on you.

    Whether your loud, fat, slim, beautiful, ugly, quiet..etc..

    Someone will always judge.

    And it effing sucks.

  15. No being shy makes you seem reserved...People can pass judgement on who ever they want. Thats what makes the world go round apperently but people who are looking for someone who is wide the f*ck open will look past you and think you are boring.  Some one who is looking for a person who is conservative, friendly, patient, respectful, peaceful and so on and so forth they will talk to you

  16. they do, they assume you are a robot , and depending  on the way you look they might not talk to you.

    Example: if you are non-attractive, they will not talk to you , unless they need something from you, but if you are charismatic(talkative) it makes a big difference .

    so try to talk more :)

  17. Sometimes being shy means you don't go out and do things... that makes you boring.  People shouldn't judge based on being shy.  A lot of people open up later.  Shy people do things to.

  18. There's a difference between being shy and being quiet though.

    Being shy means that you're playing the inferior/superior game, and that's not healthy.

    Being quiet is just being quiet.  That's peaceful.  That's healthy.


  19. NO! I am very shy when you first meet me and when people pass judgment on me and ask me why I am so quiet it only makes me quieter! People should give shy people a chance to warm up and get to know you they will talk when they have something to say?

  20. nobody has the right to judge anyone, but we all do it anyway.

    being shy doesnt necessarily make you boring

    its just like a misconception

    i know some shy people who are hilarious and love to have a good time

    including me... before i came out of my ..."shell"

    lol

    it just takes some people longer to open up, or they could just be insecure or something

    but yeah. get to know somebody more before you form your full opinion on them <--GOOD ADVICE RIGHT THERE

    aha

  21. people think im boring but they don't really like to take the time to get to know me so im just "quiet and boring"..its not right for them to pass judgment, but we all do..and blah blah blah 35 more minutes and i can go home.

  22. Being shy makes you sneaky...lol... They always say the shy one are the quiet ones...and the quiet ones are the ones you gotta watch...lol..

    Seriously no one has the right to pass judgement... We are who we are... Dismiss the individual who thinks they are above or better than you

  23. no, but people dont have a right to pass judgement period.  No matter your personality.  But being shy can be a hard defense to crack and if the shy person doesnt want to let anyone in, then for the rest of the people they may avoid being with the shy person because they may think they will have more fun without them.

  24. Not necessarily, but if you sit in a room with another person and can't carry on a conversation then yes that would be boring.

  25. No, I'm very quiet in school during class and in the hallway. I almost never say anything but people still always tell me how interesting I am once they get me talking.

  26. No i dont think so at all! I have two best friends who were shy when i met them and they didnt talk much! But, i got to know them and then they talked all the time and they are some of the best friends ever and im so gald i got to know them! Even though i dont really consisder my self shy at all! Hope this helps!

  27. No and no, but I think everyone has a responsibility to make some sort of contribution when in a social situation, otherwise just remain at home & watch t.v.

  28. Does shy equal boring?  No, of course not.

    If you let your shyness become a roadblock to doing the things you want to do with your life, it can make you unhappy or boring, but it doesn't have to.

    Do people have the right to pass judgment?  Yes, of course, people can judge you on whatever they want.  Is a snap judgment a good assessment of a person?  No, of course not.  

  29. NO I dosent just because your shy dosent mean your boring and alot of people mistake shy and boring  being boring mean that you dont have anything intersesting about you and that your a drag being shy is nothing like that it just means that your not as out going but you could still have something intesting to say and you can stil be funny and things like that they are two tottally different things entirly

  30. Most of the time but if yoove got really nice frends or a best mate you can just act your self in front of them and dont care then start duin that wiv your frends then infront of ppl then you will be more confident and not shy in no time :D

  31. No actually I believe that quiet people get more attention because they're not annoying.Plus people want to know you.However I also believe that shy people are not brave at all.I can't say that about you though because I don't know you.Hope this helps!
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