Does this man fancy my wife?

Question

I have a question. It is about my wife being out and a man approaching her. She made it clear she was married and not to get the wrong impression. He said that was fine and he liked to meet new people and talk. She said after that he did nothing inappropriate. She said he was really nice and interesting. This made me jealous. I asked if he was handsome and she said he is.

I told her he still has the same thing on his mind and was just trying a different approach. She told me she knows where to draw the line. My question is if a woman knows a man fancies her, can it be just casual after that? The woman knows that it's not just innocent conversation because she knows his original intention. My fear was that if she thought he was nice she might let her guard down and create an opening for him. It bothers me that the attention might have felt flattering to her, making her feel s**y. She sounded like she really did find him exciting and enjoyed talking to him.

Answer 1

It sounds to me that you do not trust her. Maybe you should start paying her a little more attention to her. Such as unexpected flowers, complement her on how good she looks and how s**y she is. Taker her out to dinner for no special reason. Kiss her when you leave in the morning and when you get home at night, and when you leave to go to the store. On the weekend make love to her at times that you normaly do not. When she is doing dishes come up behind her put your arms around her and kiss her on the ear. All these little things let a woman know that you lover her and they love it. We as men some times forget to do these little thing to remind our women how much we care for them. I hope what I have said will help get you back on track and help with your problem. Good Luck.

Answer 2

That sounds suspicious to me. Maybe, if more evidence turns up and she won't talk to you about your suspicion, then discreetly take a day off work and see where she goes. But make sure to talk to her first before you do any snooping.

Answer 3

hmm well women are allowed to feel s**y just as men are. and if you arent mentioning how beautiful she is then sure she will look else where for that attention but that doesnt mean that she will jump into his pants. the thing here is do you still trust your wife or dont you. once people are married people tend to presume that each person is owned by the other and this is not the case, each person is free to decide their own future and choices and should never be forced. i wonder if your marriage was arranged? if so then anything can happen. but your mrs is probably just flirting as you dont give her the attention she desires. take care and dont assume just ask her straight out.

Answer 4

If she does fancy this other guy, you forgot about her, probably didn't acknowledge or appreciate her enough so another man looking at her made her feel wanted. If she is running around, don't do the mistake of getting angry and demanding answers. Instead make it difficult for her to cheat. Send her flowers, start going to the gym with her. Take her lunch. Pop up with a nice gesture. Don't make it obvious that you're jealous. All she needs is a little of your attention. It's never too late.

Answer 5

You could be over reacting.. Your wife would not have told you if she had intent...Im not saying your wrong but is she doing these things because of your jealous behaviour...

Answer 6

it sounds to me like your wife likes the attention she is getting from this man.  She has already "opened the door".  Now you say she is being secretive about things........C'mon think about this.   why does she feel she needs to be secretive if she isnt doing anything wrong.  ask her how she would feel if the tables were turned.  Sounds like your wife is doing more than she claim she is with this guy. Please dont be nieve.