Dont know what to do anymore..?

Question

im pretty sure that i have depression. almost everyday i feel like i should give up.

my boyfriend usually listens. but sometimes when i feel depressed, i must kind of treat him like c**p, and i dont even realize it.

we got into an argument today, and not i feel like complete sh*t, because the last thingi want to do is to upset him or make him feel bad.

hes starting to get really annoyed becuase of it and he said today that he cant keep doing this everyday.

please help me, i dont know what to do. ive also started cutting again, even thought he told me not to, and i did it today and i feel bad.

thank you so much

Answer 1

STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Feeling sorry for yourself, things could always be alot worse!Just remember their is always someone worse off than what you are right now and STOP being so selfish.

GOOD LUCK and find yourself a hobby or work toward a goal that you want to achieve and stay focused and motivated.

Answer 2

Cutting is totally a sign that you are not coping well. There are so many things that you can do in order to feel better. If cutting really worked, then everyone would be doing it. My point is that i doesn't really do anything to help. So stop it. Let that be your last time you ever do that to yourself, again, got it? You may not even be clinically depressed. Clearly, there is something that is eating away at you, though. Try talking with either parents, school counselors or someone that can steer you toward some help. I promise you will feel better. Now, go do it. Do not sit around being miserable.

Answer 3

These seem to be signs that things are going downhill and rather rapidly...I would really encourage you to find someone to talk to. There are medications and therapists who care and want to help.

If you care about your boyfriend the people in your life, you will care enough about you to not lose them :)

Answer 4

If you have depression, you should see your doctor. There are medications you can take that can help. DON'T CUT. That makes me sad to hear you (or anyone) is doing that.

Also, what's the source of your depression? You need to know what's triggering these feelings. Whatever it is, if you can pinpoint it, get it out of your life or try to make changes.

And as much as you probably love your boyfriend, it might be healthy for both of you to break it off for awhile until you figure things out, before your relationship spirals downward until its impossible to fix.

And prayer. Best medicine :]

Answer 5

dont dont dont cut.. ever.. take out a piece of paper and a pen and spend as long as you need to write down ever good thing in your life... and when u feel like cutting again take deep breaths- and just apologize to your boyfriend

Answer 6

it has happened to me. about two years ago. i felt sad and that the whole world was against me. i finally told myself that i need to get a grip and that life is hard for everyone. i started looking at life with a more positive view. i started wearing lighter colored clothing and just having fun. i got passed that phase in my life quickly. now I'm not depressed anymore. try to not totally dump everything on your boyfriend. write in a journal, go to a counselor, find an outlet for your emotions like painting, photography, drawing, learn to play an instrument, or even do yoga.

at that part of my life i wanted to die.

now I'm happy

but the feeling remains.

contact me if you'd like more help.

Answer 7

at least you have a bf =)

you should treasure him.

i was depressed all year... not sure how i got out of it =(

just surround yourself with happy people, doesn't matter if they ignore you or anything

go on a trip, randomly, take a sickie of work or school and just sleep  or do nothing.

do things that distract you

sorry i cant help anymore but a friend of mine once told me:

"it has to get better tomorrow"

so just think that.

You shouldn't really cut: i think of it as: why hurt myself wen i can hurt others.. though thats not really good either..

sorry i  cant help anymore.

xox

Answer 8

have you had personal counselling for yourself? It's not really fair to put your boyfriend through that.