Dreams About a Girl?

Question

Ok this may sound wired but I had this girl friend when i was 12. I never met her. we just talked on the phone. but now i am 14 and i have dreams about her. this is the thing, i don't know what she looks like but when i see her in my dreams i know who she is!! and she is perfect! the girl of my "dreams" and i love her deeply. she tells me not to leave when i am going to wake up.

I just feel wierd.

Answer 1

I think you're in love with the idea of being in love.  That's why you're feeling so weird about it.  You have an idea of what this old girlfriend of yours is like and what she looks like, and to you, that seems just perfect.

Okay, I'll accept that.

But this girl in your dreams who doesn't want you to wake up is a deep seated desire for a girlfriend now. That's not unusual either-- to have the love and acceptance of someone else is important.

But here's what I'd like you to do. Make a list of all the things you like about this girl.  As you get older and meet people, add to the list of what you like. Scratch off things that don't apply any more.  This is a part of figuring out who you'd like to be with for life. When you meet someone in the future who doesn't live up to your list, don't try to change them.  Accept them for who they are-- but find who is right for you.

This is what your dream is about-- processing these ideas of what you'd like.

Blessings!

Answer 2

There are a few types of soulmates out there, those that become reincarnated together in the next life, such as friends in a past life may come back as friends in this life, or brothers and sisters. Then there are the soulmates who are part of your love life in life. You may have been her husband before or her wife; souls can become either in an incarnation without memory to the previous. I have had dreams such as yours, many to which I was wed with my true love. And now all I do is search to no avail (makes me sad).

There was a time in the past which our bodies weren't, but our souls we were then. And our souls split. It's a longer story than that, we are forever entwined with all souls but some are further in a human-love-syndrome state with other souls.

We approach a strange time which all our previous lives may become known to us and we can see who are all our soul mates.