Extreme shyness?

Question

Almost all year this guy was flirting w/ me and would do stupid stuff to me and deny it or blame it on other people. And asked me out a couple of times but I didn't know him well enough at the time so I told him no. At the end of the year I gave him a letter saying I think he's a good friend and said if you want to hang out (my cell # at the end of it.) He never bothered to call me and I know he won't cause I only have like a month of summer left. I really like him but he's too indecisive. Can someone please give me ideas how to be friends w/ other guys? (Idk how to be friends w/ guys the guy I liked just came up to me one day and started talking to me.)

Answer 1

let me first say that was very smart of you to not go out with him because you didnt know him well enough, i applaud you

anyways, the reason he didnt call back is because you said you thought of him as a "good friend" which made him give up on you because he thought you didnt want him. as for other guys just flirt, like joke around with them, try and find something you both like and talk about it, occasionally gently hit him on his arm jokingly when he says something sarcastic, stuff like that

just talk and hang out really, i know its tough being shy (i was too) but just walk up say high ask his name then try to get a conversation going....also it might not be too late with that one guy you gave your # to, you could call him which would maybe change his mind about you not being interested, maybe its just an idea

good luck with everything, you'll be fine

Answer 2

dont be shy, release any inhibitions you may have, i myself only recently learned this, my life is so much better, just start talking to guys, make freinds with the guys your freinds know, have fun with your self