Family/girlfriend problems!?

Question

Recently there was a fight between my sister/cousin/girlfriend. Drinking be the main part to blame. My mother broke it up. Now its my family vs. my girlfriend with me in the middle. My mother wants an apology from my girlfriend, But she feels my family hates her, so how do I get her to come apoligize? Its impossible! Its never going to end.

Answer 1

All 3 of them need to sit down and talk it out. I think they should all apologize to each other and your mom. There must be some problem that they have between them. If they are adults, they should act like it.  

Answer 2

I would stand up to my family and tell them the way it is.

Mom,

Everyone of them disrepsected you and this house. None of them behaved like ladies. They all acted like drunk fools.

Not one of them is guiltier than the other.

Everyone of them needs to apologize to the other.

Best wishes

Answer 3

your girlfriend was at your parents home DRUNK she is the one that ought to apologize.

or

find a new family or a new girlfriend.

Answer 4

Try your best to convince her, even if it's tough for her to swallow if your family means that much to you.

If it were me, I wouldn't give a c**p since I don't get along with my parents anyways. But don't ruin such a good relationship with both parties over a silly fight.

Try your best to talk her into it. Maybe your mom will be okay with a written apology since that's easier than doing so in person.