Father daughter problems HELP

Question

Okay so my dad and I have been in a crappy relationship for the past three years and he's been a total control freak! and I am to the point were I am 14 and I hate the man who helped create me! I have the chance to move out of his house but my bf is closer to his house and my friends are closers to his house too! But my life over at his house is a living h**l! So my question is... should u leave and move on with my life or tough it out for four more years with my dad???

Answer 1

Try to repair the relationship.  B/c when friends are gone, you're parents will be there to back you up.  I have some issues like that too, my rents r divorced, and just recently i stopped seeing my Dad, b/c of certain reasons... but try to b nice, and if u fight when u talk, write him a letter, and make a card, tell him you love him, b/c i'm sure you do.   I hope this helps.

Answer 2

It really just depends on the situation. I didn't get along with my dad too much when i was younger, but once i turned 18 and moved out (Still close to home) Our relationship is so much better. I'm not saying move out now, because you two can still work on it. Really just depends on the situation. Try having a talk with him and discussing all of this. Maybe when he hears what you have to say he will realize and try to work on the relationship. Good luck