Friend trouble! please help?

Question

Ok, so one of my friends has been going out with her boyfriend for about 6 months now and she practically spends ALL her free time with him whether it be before school,LUNCH, or after school, and then she tries to make up all these excuses that she doesn't! We try to talk to her about spending time with your friends is just as important as spending time with your boyfriend, but she still doesn't get it! every time we try to talk about it she gets all mad and says its not true. what do you think we should do? PLEASE HELP! this has been going on for much to long now!

Answer 1

try to get ur friends attention n talk to her bout it... or do the same thing wid her

Answer 2

Make a little a note to her saying to come on over, and what time, what they need, and where. :] Then on bottom put Boys are not allowed!! and decorate the whole card with you and all your friends signature.

Tell her it's a girls night.

Then during this time ask her why she can't spend time with her friends.

Girlfriends come before boyfriends!! Leave a note on her purse to remind her that she should hang with you guys!! And decorate it with little doodles... :]

Answer 3

Well it seems to me like you`ve already warned her! I think you should tell her one more time that if she keeps on treating her friends like c**p, when her and her boyfriend will break-up, she wont have any shoulder to cry on! But if she`s a really good friend, and she does break up with her BF, give her JUST A LITTLE silent treatment, so she can see that she really let you down, but then be there for her. Friends do make mistakes, and she just needs to learn that boyfriends are gonna come and go, but good friendship is gonna stay. If she`s not a really close friend and you don`t really care, then just let her go. Its her lost anyway!

Answer 4

So I totally understand what yuor going though. I used to have a friend just like that. the best thing that i would tell you is to talk to her about and if she doesn't want to hear then maybe start spearating from eachother. That might open her eyes. But if it doesnt you should still and try be her friend. Because if they end up breaking up she'll need her true friends there. And you seem like a true firend if your trying to keep the friendship together. As for now just try making plans with her and if you have to invite her boyfriend. Good Luck!!