Friends? relationships? ?

Question

ive been going out with my boyfriends over the summerholidays, and it has been amazing to spend time with him but now he has gone to london! we are still together and everything but over the summer holidays i didnt spend much time with my friends and everyone was off doing there own thing! Now some of them are saying that im going to start using them because he has gone to london! what shall i do?

Answer 1

talk to them as you are asking for thier adivse on your case, saying that I feel sorry about my friends but dont know what to do?

Answer 2

You should never shut out your friends...

Because they are the ones that are there for you...

You can still spend lots of time with your boyfriend and see your friends.

Choosing your boyfriend over your friends is rejection to your peers... it doesn't have to be like that... you can have both.

If you don't want to lose your friends...let them know you are sorry and make time for them!

Answer 3

I think you should just ignore what they have said as long as you are not doing it.

Answer 4

Hi! It's always important to still spend time with friends even though you're dating. Sometimes you need a shoulder to lean on besides your boyfriend. Start hanging out with your friends, reassure them you won't use them and continue hanging out with them even after your boyfriend returns from London. It takes time though but hey, if they really consider you as a friend, by right they should be glad to hang out with you!

Answer 5

That is a bit unfair of your friends. I feel sometimes like I let my friends down for my bf. However, you need your friends whether your bf is with you or not. They should be just pleased to spend time with you. Just arrange a girly night out and enjoy it!!  

Answer 6

you should talk with them and admit your attitude was not correct. Tell them how sorry you are about it and that it wont repeat. If you are honest with them and if they are good friends they will understand you and forgive it.

have luck!

Answer 7

bit of a pickle there, because maybe they will feel like your going to be using them, but juts talk to them, and im sure they will understand that you wanted to spend as much time as possible with your boyfriend, and well if they dont understand or give you a chance then just forget about them, if they were good friends they would most probly understand you.

All the best

Daisy x