Getting cherry popped? questions?

Question

OK so I tried to have s*x..........and my boyfriend couldn't fit it in.....and he couldn't break my hymen either.....I think he was scared to hurt me .... But it still hurt when he tried to put it in... so my question is what can I do to umm...get it in?? or to make it hurt lesss...can I stretch my hymen slowly or something??

And yes, there was enough lubrication..

Answer 1

maybe it wasnt erect enough... this exact thing happened my first time too!! he prolly couldnt get it up cuz he was too afraid of hurting u. Just try it again, maybe he'll b more relaxed this time.  

Answer 2

well first off to make a good answer. how old are you? i Popped my gf cherry just by fingering her. so i dk what swrong.. try that

Answer 3

Just tell em to put it in and prepare of major pain

Answer 4

Make sure you have lots of privacy for quite a long time (two hours or more is a good idea) because not only might there be some uncomfortable, embarrassing or painful moments along the way, but there's more to the first time than just "doing it", and you'll have a lot of stuff to talk about afterwards - you do *not* want any of this to be interrupted.

When it comes to intercourse, tell your guy that *you* will be the one to say "stop" if anything's wrong (like pain, or even if you just chicken out) and that it's up to him to remember that when you tell him "stop".

Don't even *try* unless you're very turned on and very slippery... a couple of orgasms first will also help your v****a to be stretchier and more insistent on having something inside - and if you don't get very wet no matter how horny you are, have some water-based lube (KY, Astroglide, Wet or similar) handy and no matter what, go SLOW until you're comfortable.

That lube will also help prevent breakage of the condom. Yes, the condom. There's a name for people who rely on "pulling out" as a method of avoiding pregnancy: "parents".

Oral s*x is also fine any time at all for either person, at least if both of them are comfortable with it and enjoy it. Doing it until the person receiving has an o****m is nicest, but it isn't necessary. (Oh... and there's nothing wrong with a mouthful of hair when it tastes like a horny woman... there's no need to be shaved unless you like it that way yourself).

Answer 5

Juss keep tryin' mate and things should be good.  

Answer 6

have him finger u duhhhhh

Answer 7

KY Jelly or lubricated condom

Answer 8

I was gonna say lube.. until i saw what you said.

have him finger you with 3 fingers before s*x.

then lube.

and slowly, SLOWLY work his way in.

how big is he? jeez.

Answer 9

get those vibrators ;] lol jk.

Answer 10

Tell your boyfriend to use fingers first or you can do it at home yourself. And the one thing you need to remember is to RELAX.

Answer 11

Try woman on top so you can be in control. If it hurts then you need more than just the condom lubrication. If you do use extra lubrication just get a kind that can be used with condoms.