Girls going to college??? Worried???

Question

Ok so me and my girl live 15-20 min away from each other and iam a senior in highschool and she is going for her first year in ASU! We have been dating for 3 years and i believe she is the one for me but should i be worried???

Asu is the #1 party school...but she also promiced me that she wouldnt go to partys without me...

Should i believe it or should i let go of the one thing i love most so it dosnt destroy me later???

Answer 1

Sometimes the best thing you can do for your partner is trust him/her.  I would let her know what she means to you and how much you love her, and that you know this is a very exciting time for her, and you want her to feel like she has the freedom to enjoy it.  Including going to parties - with or without you.

If you feel like this is the type of person who would cheat on you, then you should leave her right now.

If you think she is honorable and would respect your relationship, then you have nothing to worry about, and you should give her the space to be a college student, along with all the challenges and excitement of meeting new people and learning to temper freedom with doing the right thing.

The question isn't how much you love her, it's how much you trust her.

Answer 2

Just believe her. I mean you have been dating her for three years, so surely you must know her and if she would do such a thing to you?

I don't think you should just let her go because of your extreme worrying!

:) hope this helps!

Answer 3

It's not worth worrying over.  Enjoy your time with her and let whatever happens be.  This means you have to trust her, because doing otherwise is just pointless.  

Though I'm going to say, and you probably won't listen to me about this til you figure it out yourself, she just might not be the one for you.  I only say this because you are both so young, and still undergoing a lot of changes.  

Basically, what I'm trying to say is view her as a girlfriend, but don't count on her being there until the end because likely you WILL be disappointed one way or another.  But you two have been together for 3 years; have a little faith.  When things start going off, your instinct should tell you what to do.  

Good luck with that.

Answer 4

don't be ridicules..let go,why on earth would you do that !!

   Letting go's one thing, throwing it away is quite another.

   Long distance relationships can be tough, but only destined to fail if they were weak to start with, the weaker the worse there chances.

   Plenty survive, just keep in touch as much as possible, same goes for spending time and suprise her now and then with a note card saying, thinking of you, little things, like that.