Girls help me plz???

Question

i posted this yesterday but no one helped. the question is how to i get girls to notice me?

im 17 and a senior in high school. never had a gf or a first kiss. i am kind of over weight. i am shy and tend to not really open up. i am trying to get over that. i am also very respectful of women. i dont curse around them, open doors for them, try to help them with their proablems, ect. i know most of you are going to say be more confident and talk to them but that is very hard for me. how to i get the girl to say hey first?

and here is a pic if anyone wanted to see http://www.myspace.com/irock80808

Answer 1

Honestly sweetie, girls can be shallow. However, if you are all you say you are, it's only a matter of time before some girl notices all of those wonderful traits you've mentioned. Just keep being that sweet wonderful gentleman. And if you are insecure about your body, start running and doing a few crunches and push ups every night. It won't be an overnight transformation, but you just have to stay motivated.

Once you are comfortable with your physical appearance, it'll show through, and trust me on this, that's really attractive. Just please please please do NOT get cocky.

Keep opening those doors! Keep respecting girls! Keep all of it up. And sooner or later some lucky girl is going to discover you and never want to let you go.

Answer 2

Your pretty good looking, I would guess that you are someone who is looked at more as a guy people are friends with instead of a guy who's dating.  Try asking a girl out and see where it goes.  Keep all of those characteristics you mentioned, they go a long way, esp when your older.  

Answer 3

ahwhh. well, if you like her hair, her shoes, her smile. or somethingg. just go up to her and tell her that. :: " hey i think your hair is cool" or whatever.

and yes i got this off of drake and josh.  

Answer 4

I have always found guys that could make me laugh(not silly jokes) were the ones that have gotten most of my attention.

Answer 5

Get more MySpace friends. You don't look overweight, you seem like a nice guy. Just start talking to them and don't be too clingy.  

Answer 6

Well when your opening the door for her she'll probablly say thank you, and try to make conversation outta that

And if your as sweet as you sound, then you may just have a really good girl friend, who's wishing you'd just ask her out already

Answer 7

haha u look cute-but dont try to push to be summit your not-if yooh are shy around women then thats the way you are and ir a grl rly likes yooh sh wouldnt care.I think u need to spend time around grls and become mates with them-you will then find its not that hard to talk to them about stuff-dont worry bout it you will get there eventually:)

Answer 8

awhh :) you sound super sweet! i think that you should just keep on being yourself. if people dont like you for you, then you dont really want to be around them anyways. and i know that it may seem "unusual" for you not to have had your first kiss or a girlfriend or anything yet, but in time, you will. you'll find someone who likes everything about you, and someone you really special that you want to share you're first kiss with.

good luck! (:

Answer 9

You seem sweet! I think you should smile at them and then just say hi! Whats to lose?

Good luck!

Answer 10

you aren't bad looking

you should just sit back and relax things will happen naturally when they're ment to happen and when they do happen they will hopefully be very special =)

good luck

Answer 11

don't worry about it so much. when the time is right, it'll happen. just be yourself in the meantime.