HELP. g*y, Bisexual Feelings?

Question

I've only ever had straight relationships, but the past few years I have been watching a fair bit of pornography. By chance (the first time) I stumbled across a g*y web site, and so I decided to take a look as I was curious. When watching two guys performing sexual acts on each other, I suddenly became very aroused. I started to worry but in the moment I really enjoyed it. However, I dont feel atracted to ANY males. I am left feeling very confused. Any ideas??

Answer 1

idk

Answer 2

Well if you became aroused to g*y s*x, what do you think that means?

If it continues for a while, then it's a probable answer.

And if you're not attracted to any males it's likely you just haven't been comfortable enough with yourself yet to figure that out.

Answer 3

Watching g*y p**n doesn't necessarily mean you're g*y. I watch L*****n p**n sometimes and I'm gayer than Elton John!

Answer 4

You were exposed to novel sexual imagery, it's not unusual to be aroused in those circumstances.  It does not necessarily mean you are bi or g*y.     If you continue to be drawn to them, it might mean you have a bi component to your sexuality.  You shouldn't be worried about it, it's okay regardless.  

Answer 5

Be honest with yourself.  Watch a few more g*y male actions -- and be totally honest with yourself.  Suppression is possible, but eventually it fails.  So you might be straight and just aroused for the moment by g*y s*x --  but it is also possible that you are g*y and fighting to repress those feelings.  You can only find out by yourself and on your own.

Hermes

Answer 6

I am complete g*y no doubts about it, and when i was younger i use to find playboy pleasuring. We all know that Playboy does not have any men in it! It was something about the whole doing something your not suppose to be doing kind of thing that really had me excited. I knew I was g*y since first grade.

I think what is going on here is one: you have curiosities that are going through your head. Two: you have a fantasy that plays out in the movies you watch (does not necessary mean you like seeing two guys together, more so it has to do with the scene you are watching or the story line to it) and Three: there must be a rush in doing something that you shouldn't be doing.

With all those mixed, you have many possibilities that play out. About the whole not being attracted to guys, it could identify that you are straight with curious tendencies or that you are not fully comfortable with the thought that you may have a sexuality orientation that is wrong in your belief.

Answer 7

Research has proven that what happens in movies influence people. Example: If you watch people smoking in movies then you are more likely to end up smoking. The media has a way of making things look ideal. Take alcohol as an example. An advert for alcohol or even a person drinking alcohol on screen looks good and a viewer is enticed to consume alcohol. The reality is different. Millions of people die because of alcohol use each year and millions more suffer physiologically.

If you are married and you see a beautiful women in a movie it is natural that you would be attracted to her but that does not make you an adulterer. If a rape scene in a movie arouses you it does not mean that you are a rapest.  

Similarly humanity will always be attracted to certain deeds that may be unnatural or detrimental to the individual or society especially if they are portrayed glamorously on screen. We have to discipline ourselves and control ourselves otherwise we would live like animals. We have to be discerning about what we view. We all go through these feelings. I have not watched a g*y film but I am pretty sure that if I watch one I too would have the same feelings as you but there is no way that I am going to allow myself to get into such a relationship because it is simply unnatural. Neither would I want to rape anyone or consume alcohol either. Although we cannot control our thoughts and feelings we can definitely control our actions