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Question

I really need some help. Ok, like everyone knows what a hand job is, and a foot job right Ok. Well, I might be going over my bf's to his house soon and he kinda said if I wanted to i could do those to him. I have thought about it before, but I have never done anything like that to anyone. I have never done something bad, and I am just afraid that people and myself will think I am bad. Is it wrong to do that? Is it s*x? I am so confused.

Answer 1

i think you should ask your mom shes got the right answear

Answer 2

First of all girly, how old are you? I'm 19 and when I was 16 I started giving handjobs and such to my boyfriend... I was hesitant at the time, but I thought since it would make him happy that I should do it. So I studied up on it and when I felt comfortable enough about doing something like that, I did. It worked for a while, he stopped complaining about me only working him up, but after only a few short weeks, it wasn't enough. He kept asking me to go further, and I was even less comfortable with the idea of that, but I still wanted him to be happy. There was a thrill to being a "bad girl" as he called me, but it left me feeling extremely guilty and self conscious and afraid someone would find out.

I will tell you this, I ended up sleeping with him. I thought I loved him enough for it to be the right choice. It's almost 2 years since I did that, and I'm still with the guy. I have a tie with him that I cannot break. I was always told that s*x should be saved for the person you marry. So there's this part of me that thinks that I should marry the guy because he was my first. And that part won't let me let him go even though I know that I can do better.

So, ask yourself this. What do I believe about s*x and marriage? Will this tie me to him in a way that I don't want to be?

And remember, one thing always leads to another. A handjob might satisfy him for now, but it won't last. Soon he'll want more.

Answer 3

well first how old are you two and yes it is a form of s*x and did he ask you to do it if he asked you it means he is trying to get some and to be honest you should wait till you are truly ready to do anything with him dont ever be pressured into anything sexual  

Answer 4

Only do something you are comfortable with doing.  You obviously are having second thoughts about it so you should go with your intuition.  Remember don't do anything you think you will regret later.

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