Have been bullied?

Question

How does the life of a nice person become when she has been cruelly bullied in high school and college because of jealousy? I mean after leaving College?

Answer 1

that is SSSOOO me.... i got bullied by words no fight though!! check out my question!! then you will know... (So what should I do?? This girl.....?) (http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;... (my question)

Answer 2

Fabulous.

Adults don't bully each other in real life.  All of those jerks she's been surrounded by will disappear, and a new crowd of reasonable people will show up.  Once she starts a job, and meets people at work, they'll be shocked to hear that anyone ever treated her poorly, and won't be able to believe that she wasn't the most popular girl in school.

Fishy, come on in!  You're entirely welcome!  BTW, you might want to look for a new circle closer to home, though...I don't know a single adult who bullies any other.  I suppose you could find one or two at a local dive bar, but we're probably all better off not looking for them!

Answer 3

She becomes extremely self-concious and backs down really easily. Also she is one of those people that asks " Am I Pretty?" but is obviously REALLy pretty.

Answer 4

Well, hopefully she learns to carefully choose her job, living arrangments and associates to avoid such jealously and bullying. She can seek counseling if she needs help figuring out what is safe and friendly versus hostile behavior.

I vehemently disagree with the person who said adults don't bully each other. Uh, of course they do. If they don't in your circle, I want in!

The trick, at any stage of life, is learning to avoid when possible, and navigate, when necessary, such bullying. :)

Answer 5

She will be the "s**y girl at work" the "guy every one wants" and she can flaunt herself without all that immaturity. In the "real world" there are still going to be the jealous people but its nothing like the c**p that you get in college or highschool. It will be fine.

Answer 6

it effects you for life and destroys a part of you. You never trust people and have trouble forming close relationships and worry about those relationships all the time