He denies he is cheating?

Question

my instinct tells me my boyfriend of 6 years is cheating on me. first he headed off for 2 months.i couldn't reach him on his cell and when i did the same woman was always laughing in the background. he stayed with me for 6 weeks, we were dating again etc.then he was itching to get away again,buying new clothes stc.i spied on him on his lunch break when his cell was off and found he was with male colleagues.and he denies cheating.why else wud a man leave then and keep coming back???

Answer 1

Maybe he isn't cheating but why allow yourself to be treated like that?

You may be in love with him and think he's the only one, he's not. Get out and meet/find someone you're attracted to who you don't have to question their fidelity or whereabouts.

You asked what would make him leave then come back. It is the attention you give him. He knows you're available and willing.

Good luck. Don't settle for less than you deserve.