He masterbated in front of me?

Question

My BF and I had s*x, then we relaxed for a little while. Then he suggested that we massage each other. I massaged him first. But after a few minutes we turned a little flirtating, then he started masterbating himself. I got all hot just watching, but was too shy to do anything. Why doesn't he just do me? Am I not good enough for him? I tried to poke for the answer, and he said it definitely is better doing me. But why didn't he just do me? I sort of feel I don't understand men. Serious answers please.

Answer 1

He was most likely physically tired but still turned on. My bf does the same thing because i like watching him, as strange as it sounds. He likes just watching me and beating off at the same time sometimes

Answer 2

Don't be so up tight about that. Maybe he thought you wanted a bit of down time from the s*x awhile ago. You should have done something if you wanted it to happen. As for not understanding him, we barely understand women too so just communicate your feelings about it so you two can be on the same page and not feel confused about each other.

Answer 3

Maybe he would like you to do the same.

Don't worry, normal stuff that many couples enjoy together.

Answer 4

wow! dont fckin over think it.

making a big deal over something little.d**n.get over it and dont be pissed over little things..he obviously thought you were hot to m********e to and didnt realize you wanted ne thing cause you didnt act on it..

Answer 5

Maybe it was just for a little after s*x fore-play.  

Answer 6

He probably wanted you to give him oral s*x but did not want to say it. After you did not do it for yourself I guess he gave up. This is not bad. And by the way asking him would give you the right answer.

Answer 7

I usually m********e in front of my BF, since he doesn't really know what he's doing.  haha!  It would really turn me on if he did the same.

Answer 8

I'm guessing maybe he didn't think you wanted to a second time, since it's well known that it's tough to get women "in the mood". Usually they say that they have a headache or something.

Answer 9

he could just be trying to spice it up a bit in the bedroom.  and maybe he wanted to watch you do it too, which is very attractive to men.  go for it!! i'm sure if you let him watch you he'd love it!

Answer 10

Because thats part of the fun? I don't see why you should be offended? You said you enjoyed it... and I think he was just trying to please you.  

Answer 11

you know what they say, if you want it done right, do it yourself.

Answer 12

girl, seriously, you and he just had s*x

so obviously you are good enough

maybe he just doesnt want you to feel him

my last bf and i had s*x all the time, but i never

blew him or nothin.  but we were together...lets see

3 Years!  It pretty much ended when he died in iraq, but still, your bf did do you.  thats what s*x is...doing!

therefore, get your sorry self together and realize that you are good for him, he just doesnt want you to touch him there...

Answer 13

why dont you ask him why?

...

1. Maybe he didnt want to get *** on you and risk pregnency; if hes allready *** it will be all over his big fella.

2. Sometimes its good to mix things up;  

Answer 14

Nothing is wrong with you. And of course you are good enough. It is just his (old) habit - a lot of men like masturbating and to fantasize.  He may have worked hard on his masturbating(to make it pleasurable) and now he is probably stuck with it (he will probably do it even after 25 years of marriage). He may or he may not come out of it.May be you should talk to him about it but not during s*x, but later when chilling ...  

Answer 15

maybe he wanted you to start masturbating while he watched too. hey, my husband and i do it.