Heartbrokenn Please give me advice?

Question

Been with him 5 years. The last 2 yrs hes been moved 5 hrs away so we saw each other Alot less. It was my fault we saw eachother less. We used to be intimate everyday but the past year its only been a few times cause i hardly saw him. He now broke up with me because of this and said he rather be single for now he needs a break. This is heartwrenching to me. He was my bestfriend and boyfriend at the same time. I dont talk to any of my girl friends anymore because they were not true anyway. I feel alone depressed and like I need therapy. =*( PLEASE HELP

also I keep calling *him* & crying and professing my love to him..is this pushing him away???

We have a past of breakup and makeups Do you think he may come back even tho we have been so distant this past year??????

Answer 1

Respect him. If you prove to him that you can be secure with the distance, then he may realize that too. I do think calling him & telling him how you feel pushes him away. If this break is because he needs to see if he feels the same, then you calling him hysterical may make him upset he hurt you. Not all of them, but most guys think ending everything would be better for the girl. I'm sure he knows that you love him, if he wants a break, let him have it. Do your own thing too. You may be surprised to find that maybe you're just attatched not as in love as you think. If you know in your heart that its meant to be, then just hold on to that, it's special and it WILL get you far. Stay strong <3.

Answer 2

i really don't know.

I think calling him and crying isn't a good idea.

try Georgia Nicolsons elastic band theory

give him some time on his own. (time to stretch out) and then try accidentally going to the same places with another guy. he will be jealous that you are with someone else and will realise that he loves you and will come pinging back!

Answer 3

Respect him. If you prove to him that you can be secure with the distance, then he may realize that too. I do think calling him & telling him how you feel pushes him away. If this break is because he needs to see if he feels the same, then you calling him hysterical may make him upset he hurt you. Not all of them, but most guys think ending everything would be better for the girl. I'm sure he knows that you love him, if he wants a break, let him have it. Do your own thing too. You may be surprised to find that maybe you're just attatched not as in love as you think. If you know in your heart that its meant to be, then just hold on to that, it's special and it WILL get you far. Stay strong.

Answer 4

same thing has happend to me i was the one calling him and he would never answer though lol so i stopped calling him and 4 days later he called me so just give him some time