Help...What should I do? ?

Question

I want to have childs and all but I don't want to hire a nanny or a babysitter

because I don't want my childs to get used to them as a mother more then me.And I don't want to end up having childs in my 40's because people would think of me as there grandma instead as there mother.And my job is working all day so help would be good.

Answer 1

My wife and I are going through the same situation. We basically decided that one of us should stay home with the baby.  

Answer 2

Make a choice.  

Answer 3

um i would say have kids now but coudnt you leave your kids with there grandma or dad and believe me your kids wont get attached to anybody more then you

Answer 4

why didnt u think about this 10 years ago

Answer 5

Please dont have a child until you learn to spell it right. There is no such word as CHILDS in the way you are wording it. It is I want to have a child or children