Help... again?

Question

Ok you've probably seen my other questions about this whole "situation" of mine but i need you to answer this one too :)

im going to six flags tomorrow with a guy who i barely know, but is really nice and sweet. we live about an hour away from each other.

im meeting him and his family there really early in the morning and then staying there all day. then they're driving me home. in the car with them for a whole hour that means.

im really really really really nervous. this is the first time ive done anything like this and everythings happening so fast! ive never dated before :(

I'm afraid of complete akwardness because of my own akwardness on the car ride home for an hour. what if its complete silence the whole time??

ehh im scared. my stomach hurts. i want to see him and hang out with him but still.

i need advice or a little help if ya can.

Answer 1

Talk to your mom about this.  See if she can bring you home.  It is hugely inconvenient for her I am sure, but spending the day with him and his family does not sound like an issue to you, its the car ride home.....

When I was a teen, I had a girlfriend who lived 3 hours away.  We met at a church thing, and wrote back and forth for many months.  Then I ended up driving to get her, took her to this formal party, and took her home (in the course of a weekend).  The parents were all ok with it, but reading this brought back memories of that weekend.  How scared she must have been, just like you!

I will say for us, it was a very nice time.  We got to know each other a lot better.   In your case, with his parents there, you will not be talking that much I am sure, but then again you've got text messaging now days....

Answer 2

just relax you'll have fun! i was so scared to date before but then i realized that its not that bad, honestly. you can think of things to talk about if you run out of conversation in the car. and about the parent thing, if you like the guy enough you can learn to bear your parents. my bf has a mohawk and is getting piercings :s and my parents and 3 other sublings are finally starting to stop bugging me. if you endure it for a while, it just oesnt bother you anymore and it your parents will eventually stop

Answer 3

just try to think about things to talk about. this'll be your first time meeting them so you could try getting to know them. or talk about six flags. or you could do what i do in the car which will completely tear you away from everything else... stare out the window and daydream. :D  and its normal for some people. not everyone is like that but you aren't the only one. im like that. and i know a few other people who are.and for now, try not to think so much about the car ride, but think about how fun six flags is gonna be. ive been there and it was awesome! and it is kind of awkward when its silent but again, once you start daydreaming, you won't even realize it. but i doubt it'll be silent. his parents will probably be talking to you most of the time. getting to know you and stuff. and about your parents getting all excited because of this guy, if you tell them seriously, that you don't like it, they'll probably stop. well good luck with everything and have fun!

Answer 4

Well you got to be careful if you have a car or your parant s have a car it is better that they take you there your5 self and pick you up to just to be sure. Well if not then im pretty sure it wouldnt be sooo silence you can talk about the rides trust me ive been to six flags it is probably going to be quite throught the whole way because your going to be exhausted. Whick Six flaggs are you going 2?

Answer 5

just relax

talk to your mom

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