Help for an unattractive girl

Question

Despite the many lies people tell me, I know I'm no where near pretty enough to be considered anything other than defective in this society.

Is my face salvageable or should I try and break my nose or find a way to make sure I can have facial reconstructive surgery.

Men, women, feel free to chime in and no lies please. I know I was made when God was particularly angry. Suffice to say, since no decent guy likes me and society would rather see me dead, I suffer for it.

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Answer 1

What?!?!?! Girl, you are pretty, and Im not lying. Because I dont lie. :)

You have a really cute smile, and really nice skin, and really great eyebrows. How could you think you are ugly? Looks arent everything, but your look nice!! I want to see a picture with your hair down. Gaaahhh..I really do envy your smile, though. I have braces, and when I smile, it makes me look like a wolf or something...I hate my smile. But you have a nice one, so use it!!

Answer 2

Ok honey please don't try anything drastic you're being really wierd right now you're beatiful. you don't need to have your face smashed up to realize it. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if you see most of the people who left comments on here saying that you are pretty, it's true. No matter how ugly you think you are only one person in this universe can judge you and that is God. Don't let anyone or yourself tell you any different. Everyone is different and just becuase of that is why no one in this world should be called ugly or fat or stupid. Because only God can judge us. Take my word for it, you're beautiful don't let anyone tell you different.

Answer 3

please get a grip on yourself and stop feeling sorry for yourself

I don't see anything wrong with you and i think you are cute and have a nice smile

stop looking at all the negative thing and for once find something good about yourself.

why should people lie to you....

Answer 4

you are so not ugly. you have a beautiful skin tone, really nice eyes and hair colour, and i wish i had a smile like yours. relax beautiful woman!

Answer 5

you are really pretty no lies

Answer 6

you are kind of ugly. I am mixed so I have an olive skin tone. But I think you would be prettier if you don't tan if you do or get some type of skin pigment change. you could get reconsructive surgery but I know right now it's  tough and it may have always been but remeber that beauty is on the inside not the outside.=D

Answer 7

You are pretty, and you probably already know that. :)

Gain some confidence!  

Answer 8

Um 1. I think you need help. I have heard people call themselves ugly before but you take it to a whole 'nother level. My depressed best friend doesnt think these things about herself. Stop looking in the mirror and start loving yourself because god does and always have. And maybe part of the reason decent guys dont like you could be that they dont like your personality. Who wants to be around a girl always saying their ugly and crying about it. You focus way to much on looks and I bet those guys are great but they just dont look like you want them to.

I'm on the verge of giving you my friend's therapist phone number.

Answer 9

You are not ugly!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

You're really pretty. You're not ugly at all! Don't let anyone tell you you're not. They are just jealous because you're naturally beautiful. Don't worry about guys, they just go for the easy girls.

Answer 11

wow, it no wonder you feel ugly and no one likes you by the way you talk about yourself. I think you know your pretty and you just want to hear everyone tell you. I mean you wear makeup, smile, and take pictures of yourself like your satisfied  with your appearance..you even do your hair, so your clearly not as depressed as you sound...well if you need to hear it, your very pretty, now stop being so hard on yourself, thats creepy

Answer 12

do you know how many people are suffering cancer, have no arms and legs, have rare diseases, and hear you are complaining about how you LOOK. wow! wear your hair loose and brush it to make it shiny.

Answer 13

really? i feel bad for you. I dont think we are looking at the same person hunny. I recomend mushrooms. let your hair down. your beautiful

Answer 14

Don't hate your self too much, you are pretty, maybe a different style is going to make you feel more confidence on your self. Try to get a make over so it can make you look and think different. If you don't love your self nobody is going to it. Start by making your self feel more secure!! Good Luck!!  

Answer 15

You are not ugly.

God did not make when he was mad, he made you with love.

You said 'no decent guy likes me'  well think. a decent guy will care what your heart looks like. not your looks. If he loves you he will think you are beautiful.

btw you are pretty.  

Answer 16

Are you okay?  I mean, seriously, are you?  Because you're not anything close to ugly.  You're really pretty actually.  

If this is just to get attention, though...ugh...

Answer 17

Wtf is your problem?! Is this a joke or do you want atttention?? You are not even ugly at all! Quit trippin!

Answer 18

Okay so you think your ugly. A lot of people don't and maybe people do.

Let me point out your lucky features:

Dark skin - alot of girls go tanning to be darker!

perfect teeth - Alot of people buy those whitening things, and if you do they are working and keep up the work. Your teeth are straight and nicely spaced alot of people get braces again maybe you had braces they worked out good if you had them

Big eyes - girls wear soo much mascara and eyeliner to get big eyes

So its obvious you take care of your eyebrows just make them a little thiner or brush the start of them (by your nose).

Make up you'll think you'll need would be

Foundation to even out your skin tone. Find one that is the same colour as your skin, oil free and light weight. Go for a liquid. If you want it all to stay put apply a primer first.

Get some lipbalm apply it to your lips. Add some lipgloss. If you like get a lip colour. Red or tinted red brown. But you'll do fine with a natural coloured lip. If you want them to be bigger go out get a lipliner and line just outside your lip ( keep the liner sharp if the line is too thick it will make your lips smaller). The liner should be one shade darker than your lip. Get a listick that matches or is slightly lighter than the liner and fill in your lips with the lipstick. Apply the lipstick with a lipstick brush ( it is a square straight edge brush.

Get some eyeshadow. Find colours you like. stick with earth tones, greens or a nice blue or dark purple. Depending on the day - or night look. Go darker at night stay natural in the day. Get some black eye liner and apply it along your upper lashes. You can apply it along your bottom lashes if you like too. Then get some volumizing, lengthening masacara. Curl your lashes and apply the mascara. Then brush your lashes to avoid clumping.

If you think your nose is to big in an area, maybe you have a bump or something. Get a bronzer and contour it. Contour is applying a darker colour on the areas you want to make recede. Blend well. This will take some  practice and probably won't work the first time you try. So do it untill you get it right.

if you want get some shimmery eyeshadows to bring more attention to your eyes and make them look lighter.

If you ever have a blemish get some concealer and apply it to the blemish. Use the concealer after the foundation.

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There is a fast make up rountine for you. If you have any other questions or anythingelse you can Y! message me.

But I should tell you right here and right now. Your not ugly. Your not the prettiest girl but there are a million people that are uglier than you. Some girls have fire burns on their face, some have pale skin with millions of pimples on their face. Count yourself lucky.

I hope that you will become comfortable in your own skin before wearing any make-up.

Answer 19

You really need to seek professional help and I'm not kidding. The person who said you were ugly was just immature and trying to be mean. You aren't ugly, it sounds more like you had some mental/emotional abuse about the way you looked growing up, or maybe as an adult who knows.  

Answer 20

your pretty!

Answer 21

YOU'RE NOT UGLYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 22

You are really pretty!!

Have some confidence, because you are gorgeous!

Answer 23

your really pretty you look like this one girl that goes to my church and all the guys lovvve her!

Answer 24

the only thing that is unattractive about you is your low self asteem and self hate! be grateful that you are healthy and perfectly stunning! there is not one thing that needs to altered. theres a saying "if you dont love your self no one will." now look in the mirror and learn to love yourself because you are good looking!

Answer 25

Are you fricking crazy! your not ugly!  Did something happen to when you were young that made you feel this way?  Maybe its time you spoke to someone who can help you with these issue.  Good Luck

Answer 26

Omg you are crazy.  You are anything but ugly you are so pretty.  Why would you think your ugly.  Be confident about yourself. You are gorgeous and I mean that.  Anyone who thinks otherwise is just jealous.  We cant all look like the sterotypical blond and blue eyes.  Its good to look exotic and diverse.

Answer 27

What is your problem, hun?

You're pretty.

Don't feel bad some guys go for the bleach blonde s***s.

Try doing something with your hair also maybe dye it a lighter brown..I think that would be cute.

Also play around with hairstyles. Don't worry and Don't break your nose.

Answer 28

huni i dont think ur ugly and iam not lyin honest i wldnt about something like that.  Huni i think the same about me i dont think iam pretty at all but my boyfriend loves me for who i am.

there is nothing wrong with ur nose either.  Why dont you jst experiment with makeup and do your hair.  do something though dont sit been unhappy with yourself.  lets face you are who you are and u cant change that so make the most of you

have a look on these websites

1 is how to look gud naked by gok wan he is fantastic he will show you what cloths wld fit for your body and what you wld look fantasic with.  He also helps with hair make up everything

and the other is a virtual make over. put ur pic on and mess about with hair and different colours ect

Answer 29

omg ur like wayyy prettier than me so dont even think about saying your ugly!!

seriously, i WISH i was that pretty.

you need to talk to like a counselor or something.  

Answer 30

not too bad.Thanks for god that ur healthy. look those peoples who have no eye or no legs have no ears.

Be confedent.

Answer 31

Drama queen much? You look fine, I wouldn't say your exceptionally breath takingly gorgeous, but you are very pretty. You have perfect skin, pretty eyes and a nice smile. calm down.