Help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Question

my grandpa has opd and it makes him really nervous i am staying the night with him tonight and he worries about me all the time every 5 minutes he comes in the room that i am staying in and checks on me and it is really annoying i mean i was watching room 1408 on my portable dvd player and eating pizza and i hade a coke form the can he yanked it out of my hand and told me i was going to cut my tounge im like omg and then he asked me about the 3 promises they are not to have drugs,achole or s*x and he says that every time we see each other i mean it took me 10 minutes just to get him out of my room today! please tell me what to say to him i try to ignore him but he is like a bomarang he keeps coming back oh and today he says that i dont talk to him antmore and it makes him upset im like omg i talk to you all of the time!!

Answer 1

It isn't YOUR room to begin with.  It is HIS home and you are a GUEST.  He has a mental illness and yet you're such an ungreatful brat you take issue with that.  I suggest you don't stay with him any longer if he "annoys" you so much.

Answer 2

I understand that can be really irritating but until he gets the conversation and not ''go away grandpa' hes not gonna quit bugging you.

Tell him you're fine, you love him and you are enjoying your stay and would he mind giving you a little more time to yourself.

Have your meals with him, engage with him etc etc.

Be nice- he's letting you use his home,

do him the decency of a conversation.

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Answer 3

well thats his disorder. tell him that  promise ur ok. but that probally wont stop him that much. tell him that you'll check in every 10 minutes instead of him checking in with u and try to talk to him when u can. make him feel better

Answer 4

You really need to take a good look at your grandfather. He is ill and won't be around forever. If you do not take the time, and patience with him in his time of need you will regret it. Believe regret is a really hard bed to lay on. He cannot help his condition. Try to remember your grandfather the way he was before.