Help! relationship PROBLEM?

Question

have this problem since chilhood.If somebody with whom i have a relationship (relatives,friends,mom,dad,siblings etc.) has done or spoken something hurting me.I make them aware of their mistake and break the relatinoship forever.No compromise.I have left lots of friends and girl friends.(only parents and brother are left.)I feel like an orphan now.what should I do?

Answer 1

re evalute your descision of booting those people out of your life. apoligize and they'll come back around.

Answer 2

people make mastakes forgive and forget  

Answer 3

i wonder if as a child, this is how your parents ended their relationships?(with thier friends etc) , as this defencive behaviour could have been role modeled by them. alternatively,did you have a painful experience in childhood, where after a disagreement you felt abandoned, and have built up this 'cut em off' approach as a defence against not getting hurt.

have you cosidered counselling to find out why you do this?, Transactional analysis counselling focus's on relationships between people and could really help to find out why you do this, and how to end it. A great book called T.A TODAY, by Ian Stewart  might give you some insight.

god luck