Help with this girl please?

Question

There's this girl in my class that I really, really like, and have ever since the beginning of sixth grade (I'm in 9th now), and really want to go out with her. So I got one of her friends to give me her cell number. So I called her and told her my true feelings for her (this was like 3 months ago) and she doesn't believe when when I said that I liked her!

So I kept trying to tell her it was true, and she just told me to leave her alone! So it hurt my feelings a little. Then for like the next 2 weeks before summer break started she totally avoided me. I was a little confused. She's not like out of my league or anything, and she's not like some s**t, and she's not prep, and she doesn't date many people. Back in 6th and 7th grade many people said we like each other, but I told no one my real feelings until the end of 8th grade to the girl who gave me her number. The, of course, it spread. But that same night is when I called her. So please help me out, what should I do? How can I get her to out with me?

Answer 1

ok well she doesnt like you thats it theres nothing more you can do! by persisting intrest in her your just bugging her more so just find a new girl even though it might be hard you'll get over her :)

Answer 2

you gotta give her time. she might be afraid of her feelings for you. she might like you but she may be afraid of what her friends might say and other stuff like that. i would just let her be for the time being. hopefully she realize that you are the best guy for her. flirt with some other girls (maybe her friends) to try and get her jealous. this may be a little cliche but patience is a virtue

Answer 3

Pursuing a girl in highschool is a wasted venture. Trust me on this.

Not to mention if you're already on the friendship tip, you will NEVER score.  My sister is 3 years older and EVERY guy would bug the c**p out of me to set them up.  She had ZERO intention of doing anything with any guy all throughout HS.  This is the case with most girls. (Although now there's a lot more who are down)

But if you want success I highly suggest that you date girls at OTHER highschools. It's a guarantee.

1)She knows that she won't have to face the "public eye" of her school given any transgressions between you two

2)She will be more willing to put out because she knows that nobody at school will know about it

3)She won't face the peer pressure of "eeew why do you like HIM?" because she just says "Oh I am dating a guy from another school"

Her friends will probably be jealous or think she's very cool for it

4)You increase your chances of collateral damage by hooking up with her friends. (especially if you do your job right so she brags to them then it's a LOCK)

5)If $h1t gets sideways, you can dump her and never have to see her again.

6)You'll have a beter relationship because you won't be with each other CONSTANTLY day in and out. You'll savor the time you do get

7)There will always be something to do. Between the combined activities of two whole schools, you're bound to have twice the parties to go to, twice the games, etc.

8)You can hit a heavy.  If you feel like hoggin, NO PROBLEM. Your buds will never know.

That's just the short list.

Always get your HS chicks from a different school. It's a win/win solution to your dilemma.

Here's another tip.

Never GET a girl to go out with you.   What's the fun in scoring on someone you convinced to do so? I'd rather have a woman who is after me and wants me on her own accord for me. The way to do that is be something that she will want. Be desirable.  But above all be yourself.

Answer 4

This sounds so familiar to a problem I had.

A guy liked me for about 4 years and although I was friends with him I personally didn't want to go out with him. He kept asking me out and although I was flattered I got a bit fed up and embarrassed.

I'd have much preferred it if he'd have asked once and then just Left me alone. Maybe a couple of times more but it became stalkerish.

I'm not saying you're a stalker! But just be careful because the more you pester her the more she might get fed up.

Don't take it personally, maybe she just likes someone else and that' why she won't go out with you. I'm sure you are very nice though so just move on a find someone who appreciates that.  

Answer 5

If she liked you back she would have not siad i do not believe your feelings. Thats just an excuse to not have to deal with you. Move on!...

Answer 6

I think she was avoiding you because she perhaps isn't used to people liking her!! its the same with me. i would like take her aside if you can and be totally serious and tell her then see where you stand with her. Also i wouldn't rush into Boyfriend/Girlfriend thing but take her on a date like to the movies or something like that. That would win me over. try it

hope it works out.

x

Answer 7

The only thing you can do is ask her one last time but ask her if she likes you or not and if she dosent then dont ask anymore your only hurting yourselfe it seems like she dosent like you but she might be shy so go to her and tell her how you feel only the two of you best of luck

Answer 8

ask her out on a date..take her to the movies then maybe dinner tell her when it's just the 2 of you..if she still dinking around then i'm sorry you'll have to move on...but good luck...personally it doesn't take much for a girl to figure out that a boy likes her..if she's playing hard to get she's not that into you..