Helpp. duno what to do tbh. :^].?

Question

argh! wel i left i question on here before about the lad im gonna talk aboutt. so yeh, hes been doing alot recently! i duno if he means too8), but being soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo offf, not his usual self at all:|, but is with everyone else? doesnt talk when i try to talk, doesnt answer texts or anything, and he does its off putting:|. im not being paranoid cause i no what he is usually like. then next days hes like heyah babee!!!! proper proper nice:|, after ive just said to myself right **** it not going back, :@. put i spoke to him, but i was being off. showing i dont care trying to get rid of him, when friends asked me if everything was okaa with me and him and just denyd even knowing him! deleting his numbers and all the textss. then **** sake, just says proper nice things like i miss uu, i wanna see uu, ur what i wish for, your gawjess, i love you! :(:((:!!! and then i cant help my self than be the same with him. then it happens all over againn. i cant deny him! it wont work im a reck i duno what to do at all please help.

Answer 1

i think you both need to sit down together and sort out what you really want to do with this relationship,

Answer 2

you CAN deny him; you just don't want to, yet.  From you writing this question and the things that you said, you see the game that he is playing.  Let me ask you, it sounds to me like you genuinely care about him, would you do the things that he's doing to you to him?  If your answer is no, why do you think you are to him what is to you?  

I had a boyfriend once who would try and mess with my head sometimes (mainly, because he knew he could).  He would say for 10 minutes how he was so in love with me, I was the only one he wanted, etc.  Literally, 10 minutes later, he'd say that he didn't know if he was in love with me - that he might want to date other girls.  I know how much it messes with your head and I know how much you want to HEAR the things that they say even if in your heart you know they aren't genuine.

Don't let him have power over you, you deserve better.  Completely ignore him no matter what his messages say.  Even if he says what you "want to hear" that's why he's saying it... he knows you want to hear it, not because he means it.