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Question

Am i in love or what? im confused!?

okay so this is weird especially for me! i've never dated anyone and im 17! but not ashamed! okay so there's this guy who i've seen a few times. once in july, and recently i see him at church every week. i think he's prob 3 yrs older than me i honestly dont know. :( but it's just that whenever i see him a smile comes across my face and i get this weird butterfly feeling! he seems like a nice guy because he's very involved in church activities and giving volunteer service. soo can someone explain? oh and he's pretty cute and decent! he has strong features lol.

Answer 1

I'm sorry to say, but 20 yr old guys don't usually date 17 yr old girls still in high school, he's about to be able to drink alcohol soon (even though he goes to church) and he's not going to want to go to "Prom".  I think you should stay closer to ur age group.  Guys must chase girls, not vice versa.

Answer 2

thank God.. i say that you found some one in church and not outside of church. you say that he is into the church activities so you know that he wants to be a gentleman before god and those around him..

go up to him and talk to him and asking him a few things about himself.  

see how long he has been a christian and what he likes to do and where he likes to hang out..

as a  church goer  ask God to help you know if this guy is the right one for you..  and ask God to guide you and bless it.. put before God the kind of man  you want to have... likes and dislikes..  

ask god to give you divine moments if God wants you to be with this person...  

ask God to put a balance in your emotions so that you can make wise decision  and not to be controlled by your emotions..  

Matthew 6:33 read and meditate on it

God Bless and all the best

Answer 3

That isn't love....it is attraction.  Love takes time to build.  Attraction is what makes you all nervous.  Attraction is a good place to start if he seems nice.  Good Luck.