Hmm whats goin on here??!!?

Question

well i hav a friend who moved to our skool last year, she recently told me why she moved-because she had anorexia and wanted a new start. everything was goin great til a few days ago when we started back at school.....nd i'm getting really confused..nd supcioius

a few of the girls noticed that she had lost weight

she looks pale

acting moody at times

going home at lunch time

not wanting to talk bout anyting etc nd i'm finding it really hard to tlk to her

wanting to now everyone elses problems

watching her food nd exercising a lot

not wanting to go places with us

2day she signed up for the football time for the first time ever...

im just dunnno wats goin on...cud it be dat shes havin a relapse r stressed r sumting...anybody no because i dnt want anyting to happen her,

i get on realy well with a teacher at school nd i'm wondering if i shud say sumting r not, i also saw her mother in the school office today but i dunno wat dat was about....

should i still say sumting nd if so how do i go bout it??!!!

we've started a new school yr but its not stressful so i realy dnt no wats goin on!!!!! THANKS FOR ANY HELP!!!! means alot!!!!

Answer 1

I would speak to the Teacher

Answer 2

Yes she is relapsing she's around new ppl and other girls can be very intimating because you want to look good too and she knows she has a problem but she can't stop the bad habit because she doesn't see anything special about herself.  You really can't understand unless you've been there and I have and I'm still there I know I have a problem but being thin and sick is still better than fat and happy any day of the week I'm dieting right now feeling like c**p but I gotta be thinner in 2wks to go clubbing with my bf.....they'll be other girls there gotta try and add up.  It's really nothing you can do except let her do her and be a friend.

Answer 3

Well, just because she "used" to be anorexic doesn't mean that she can be 100% back to normal yet. As long as she's eating (even if she's watching what she eats) then she might be okay. It takes people a long time (sometimes their entire lives) to fully deal with an eating disorder

However, the other things are a bit suspicious. I would keep an eye on her for a while longer, and if all this continues..try talking to that teacher about it. Just tell them you're really worried about her and don't know how to handle it. Then maybe he can talk to her mom/parents about it.

Just be ready because if you do tell, she may be really upset and you might lose a friend. Though, if it's something this serious..you have to tell (If it gets worse/continues)

Good luck!