Honest opinions please!!!?

Question

Hello I got married last june, wedding very beautifu;l and was blissful until 3 days ago, as hubby is working as security, i got worried and walked along to his work place,which i found him not to be there and when i walked along i saw him get off the bus which we normally take for the town when we club.

i cant seem to trust him going out as everytime i innocently call he makes me blow up

next thing is the council called and he went on their side agreeing i am not responsible etc when i am the one who got the house myself and brought up 2 boys alone for at least 2.5 years out of 3 because he was not committed

and another i came back from work tonight i started at 7am and got home at 8.30pm and totally knackered he worked 9am till 8pm and easier job and i come home do housework and what does he do winds me up in front of my dad brother and kids for third night in row, and intimidates in such manner i slapped him, now hes screaming am crazy and wants devorse

when all i wanted tonight was to see to kids, do housework , bath then bed but no he had to swipe my tired smile off my face and make me cry with frustration and anger and go to bed like that it drives me crazy

is this truley sign of the end or do you think we may over come this, until these 3 days we have been blissful but now am always crying at home because he winds me up allways as if he gets a high buzz from it.

Answer 1

Get rid of him

Answer 2

Since you are writing this you want to make it work. You have to ask yourself if you believe that HE wants to make it works as well. If you are not sure, try to talk to him. Maybe you need relationship counseling!?

I know it is easier said than done. I am in a terrible situation myself and if it were not for my little son I would have left my husband a million light years ago.  

Answer 3

honest opinion your spellings rubbish and your husband sounds like a prick

Answer 4

This is sickening!

Answer 5

honestly, i think you both are crazy.

no couple "in love" have any excuse to hit eachother.

and you dont seem to trust eachother at all...

you dont seem to have anything together... find someone that works for you and leave this boy.

Answer 6

Wow your grammar is terrible! I couldn't even finish reading this!

Answer 7

Leave him now .

Answer 8

I can't even understand what you're asking. Are you venting about your husband? Maybe you can find a message board that uses your native language, and ask your question there. Your English is not very good.

Answer 9

all was well when you were not aware of his activities, since now you have kids, ignore him and keep the relation and try to realise your hubby to be your strictly. Survive your relation honey.

Answer 10

men who hit women are scum kick his *** out.