How Can I Get My Revenge?

Question

Have known him for a yr. and through out this time he cannot get his stuff together. About 2 wks. ago we had a intimate discussion and he told me about his 'powerful' feelings for me and how he loved me etc. After we had this conversation I didn't hear from him for about a wk.

I have noticed that he gets really close then pulls away, and suddenly he pops back up like everything is ok. This time he sent me a text and I didn't respond.

I personally think he can't commit and is just playing the field. We have never had s*x, so he is only getting emotional intimacy from me, if anything.

How do i get revenge on him? Should i just ignore him like he does me and then pop up like everything is A-ok.

It's like he enjoys playing with my emotions and I am sick of it.

Answer 1

tell him how you feel and if he truly cares for you then he shouldnt just 'pop up' weeks latter....and if that doesn't work then tell him off!

Answer 2

If this has been going on for a year, there is obviously just one answer!  He's just not that into you!  It doesn't matter if he doesn't contact you for a week.........you're still there and available to him when he does!

Guys who really care about you don't put you on the back burner and leave you there!........they are with you, proving to you how much they care!  You have said the truth yourself.....there really is no excuse for it!

You don't need to get revenge.......you need to get rid of him!  He's treating you the way you're allowing him to treat you!!

Revenge just shows him he still has control over your emotions!  What you need to be showing him is total and complete indifference!

He's dangling a carrot at you and tossing you crumbs and you're settling for that!  Enough already!.......move on!  This relationship isn't going anywhere!

Answer 3

Hun, I've been there in ur position before. There was this guy i know and deeply love two years ago and he was just as u describe. After 1-2 years being in an on/off relationship with him i was done putting up with his bs. He definiely didnt seem like he want to commit. I dont think u should get revenge on him. Better yet block him from ur cellphone and life and cut off all communication with him. There is no need for people like him. He obviously doesnt care. If has time to tell u his feeling, he certainly have time to call and respond back. If he doesnt have time, tell him to make time for you if u are so important to him. I do not tolerate people like that and you shouldnt either. Say good bye before you get even more caught up with him.

Best of luck.

Answer 4

hi !! I'm  just going to tell you strait out how i fell about all this / even do if you love this guy , you should make a decision for you're self  , leave him ,. he is just playing with you're emotions   /i can tell you so many bad things about him , but he is not even worth my time /.I care about you / and just like i care about you ,you should care about yourself, and stop wasting you're valuable time , life is so short , please start living , put the trash were it belongs, and before i go ,,,, you're revenge is to get him out of you're life FOR GOOD,  don't even waste you're time saying bye, or nothing. you are a great women and you don't deserve this from anybody, love you /and good luck with you're new life / like they say ( today is the first day from the rest of you're life ) so make the best out of it,