How Do I Make Friends?

Question

I just moved into University, and no one seems to be my type. They all want to drink and party, I'm not really into that. I feel really lonely and miss my family and so far I haven't really made any friends to talk to or eat lunch with. I don't know what to do. I don't know what I'm going to do. I just want to have people to talk to and do things with at night.

What do I do?

Answer 1

You Need To Be Straight Forward,

Just Say HI (Need to Smile), then introduce Yourself, then automatically they will introduce them to you..

Because everyone in this world looking for Good Friends, from my experience 95% People looking for friends

Then You Can be Friends...

Good Luck Friend!!

Answer 2

just be your self

try talking to someone i'm sure you're not the only one that doesn't like to drink and party

i'll pray that you will find a friend to hang with!

remember GOD loves you  

Answer 3

i felt like this in college for quite a while. i thought i'd meet people in my dorm but it turns out half of them joined sororities and quickly moved out within the 1st semester and the people that were left i felt like i had close to nothing in common with. it was like polar opposites there were the people who loved to party (the sorority ones that ended up moving out anyways) and the people that were left were almost completely anti social as in they hid in their rooms and even though i knew they weren't my type i would try to strike up conversation just for the sake of having company and most of them were so shy they would barely peep a hello out of their mouths to me. i was looking for a nice medium of someone who liked to have fun and do things, but wasn't crazy.

to be honest, if you aren't one that looooveess to party and drink or one that is completely content locking yourself up in your room and doesn't care whether they have friends - it's really hard to find friends. or at least i found it to be that way. i met some people in my classes though. once you get into your classes and get more into the school year you'll most likely have some kind of group projects or try to form some kind of study groups with people. i found that to be a way to meet people outside of my dorm. there at also clubs you can join, but in my experience those were a failure for me too. oh, if you're good at sports look into trying to join an intramural team - i heard that's a great way to meet new people. good luck, the first year is usually the hardest. i know how it feels to have no one to eat with and just end up taking my food back up to my room and eating alone... when everyone in the cafeteria seems to have groups of friends around them at meals times. things will come around as the year goes by, you'll meet more people and get a better feel for the school.

Answer 4

Look for the people that are doing stuff that you normally do and just be yourself,

There other people looking for friends there to so you will find some.