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Question

I need help.

OK so at school I'm very shy and sometimes I think I'm boring to talk too.

Can you tell me how to make more friends,what to talk about and how to get people to like me more.

HELP I WANT TO NOT BE SHY ANY MORE AND BUILD UP MY CONFIDANT BUT I DON'T WHERE TO START OR HOW TO.

Answer 1

well all you have to do is make small talk. Since you are shy people would be surprised to see you talk to them but they would get over it after a while. Just remember to be yourself and people will like you for that. For small talk bring up a current movie, the summer, or even the past.

Answer 2

Start with the people closest to you in class. ask to borrow a pencil just to speak to the person. ask the friends you do have to introduce you to their friends. what to talk about? I'm guessing that all teens talk about pop culture now. go for it. don't be shy. and try making friends with different types of people. you will be surprised to find out how many of them are just as shy as you are.

Answer 3

You've gotta start slow. Just saying hi to people and stuff.

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Answer 4

i used too be like you buit soon i just didnt care what ppl thought of me cus i used too care what ppl though then i just was myself and come to find out every ! loved me.. and just b yourself.

topics to talk about

ask then what there hobbies are

fav color

fav sports team

fav sport

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hope i helped<3:)

Answer 5

just smile at people and say hi..dont ***** behind peoples backs or anything, just be a real nice genuine person... stuff like that gets people talking about how nice you are.

Dont throw yourself in there if you dont want to, start asking people in school to help you with some work and yous will eventually start talking.

Give people compliaments like 'wow your hair is a really nice colour, is it natural?'

Just be nice :)

and remember! Being nice gets people liking you!!!dont be so unconfidant :)

Answer 6

you will blossem when the time is right. i was shy for along time n didn't talk now ya have to tell me to shut up.. why dont you try writing on a piece of paper things that make you feel beautiful or specially and hang it were you can see it every morning, and when you smile look in the mirror  and keep that smile all day...

smiling all the time makes people wonder what your up to.

Answer 7

your like me......i only have 2 friends and  i'm trying to get more friends. all you can do is be your self and go hang out with people...sit with them during with them and listen to their convo and when you have something to say, say it!

I know its lame but thats what i'm doing and thats how i got my 2 friends!