How can I restrict my pregnancy?

Question

Hi,

I am 16 year old. My boyfriend wants to do the s*x but he doesn't want to use any condom. I am afraid of getting pregnant. Is there any way that I will not get pregnant after doing s*x without using condom?

Please help me...

Answer 1

Well you should use a condom every time because there are disease out there that you can get from having s*x without using a condom, and there are some diseases you can get even if you do use a condom, There is only one sure way to not get pregnant, and that is to not have s*x. You should definitely not sleep with anyone who is not willing to wear a condom.

Answer 2

Yes, there are plenty of other types of birth control but NONE of them will prevent a sexually transmitted disease.  

Answer 3

Dont even do s*x! wait till ur  maried! its much better!  stat pure! God dosent want u to do this! member God is always watching!!!

Answer 4

if you don't want to get pregnant. don't have s*x.

Answer 5

Yeah sure....don't use contraception...you won't get pregnant. For the love of God PLEASE do not be as stupid as your boyfriend seems to be. You WILL get pregnant if you do not use any birth control. You should know that to be honest.

Answer 6

The "morning after pill"

But, your boy'freind' might just be using you.  If you wait until you both promise in front of loved ones "to stay together for the rest of your lives", he might not go off and have s*x with someone else.

Answer 7

you can get on birthcontrol if you are going to "do" the s*x, but if you are going to have s*x you should tell him that he has to wear condoms or you wont have s*x with him, and if he respects and loves you than he should use them, if not then you shouldnt be with him in the first place. Theres an extremely high risk of STDs when you dont wear condoms and if you never wear them you will eventually get an STD, so please please please wear condoms and use birth control!! thats the best way to prevent pregnancy!!!

Having s*x without any form of birth control will result in pregnancy and STDs!!!

If you respect yourself you will make him wear a condom and if he won't wear it then don't share your body with him.

Be Safe-PRACTICE SAFE s*x!!!!!!

Answer 8

If you don't use some kind of birth control, you will risk getting pregnant, end of story. Whether you choose condoms, or get yourself on birth control pills, etc., you need to do something to protect yourself. Even if you use protection there is still a chance at pregnancy, so you would be better off not having intercourse at all and find other ways to be intimate with your boyfriend. If he really loved you, he wouldn't want to risk changing your life forever by getting you pregnant at 16. He should be showing some respect - and you should be demanding it from him.  

Answer 9

first i think it`s good that you are afraid of getting pregnant lots of boy`s and girls don`t think of the consequence of unprotected s*x.having said that you are only thinking of the least worrying side of having unprotected s*x.with pregnancy you would at least have the opportunity to have an abortion if you wanted,even though i`m against that there are so many people out there that can`t have children and would love to adopt.but in these days it would unlikely kill you.unlike AIDS.o.k that`s the most serious scenario but there are also other sexually transmitted disease that a too numerous to mention and some of them can cause you to be unable to have children at a later date.you may not want children yet but surely would like to have some at a later date.

you haven`t said how old your boyfriend is but it seems to me he is also too young to be in a serious relationship,if he was he would want to take responsibility of you and to protect you if he was really serious about you both.he could also get aids.

i would also suggest before you start having a sexual relation that you also go to the gynecologist for this new vaccination against cancer of the womb which can be another thing caused by sexual contact.

i would seriously think very carefully before going the next step and if you do decide and he thought anything of you or your health you would and should use a condom as well as maybe the pill.(sometimes a condom can break or even come off if it is not the right size) don`t forget you first time only happens once so should be something very special that you can remember the rest of your life.it should also be something you have no doubts about and that you feel totally at ease with.hope you can come to the right decission and if your boyfriend tries to put ´pressure on you and say`s he`ll finish with you then let him you`ll be better off without him.if you don`t respect yourself and your body how can you expect others to do the same?

Answer 10

Don't do it! You're too young to get pregnant! If he's pressuring you, then he's a jerk and not worth it.  You could go on birth control pills, but that won't protect you against std's. DON'T chance it!  You have your whole life in front of you! Go to planned parenthood and talk to someone ASAP! They're there to help you!  

Answer 11

Be smart! if you have unprotected s*x theres a HIGH chance you will get pregnant! so if he doesnt want to use a condom, dont have s*x with him! dont give in to pressure! good luck hun.

Answer 12

Please understand that s*x without a condom can or will lead to pregnancy, and there is no way to avoid it, without the pill which is also not 100%.   Also know that a boy who wants to "bareback" is probably not very responsible, and will not end up being the love of your life.  

Question back to you is, do you want a baby at 16, which will likely s***w up the rest of your life, and are you sure he has no STDs, which can also s***w up the rest of your life?  

Stay with oral and hand s*x, until you're really ready for more, and then use a condom.  If he doesn't agree, get a new boyfriend!  

Answer 13

there is no sure fire way to stop getting pregnant without using a condom. can you use another type of contraception i.e. the pill that's like 99.8% affective. or the cap etc, other than that now all natural method can 100% keep you safe and condoms are the only thing that will prevent std and sti's