How can i make her happy?

Question

Okay so heres the deal..

my girlfriend who is 16 is reallllly into dancing, but she is a cheerleader as well. I dont know why, nor do any of the friends we have in common, but her parents are making her choose between danching and cheering. Dancing makes her incredibly happy, and it helps her to live life with a passion. She got a job offer to teach it, and i told her that she should take it, and she said that she wanted to, but that she was going to pick the Cheering in stead. She said that because if she picked dancing her parents would be disappointed with her for changing her mind. Her parents really dont give her enough credit, she makes straight A's and her parents allways find a fault in her schoolwork. It frustrates me that because her parents are perfectionists, she has to be unhappy.

is there any advice you can give to her, or any way i can do something to maybe let her dance on the side or something, i feel horrible for her :(.

thanks for any Help!

Answer 1

I think she she do what makes her happy, not her Parents.

They will be disappointed that she changed her mind within the few moments of it,

But in the long run, she will be the one that is unhappy, and its her decision [her life]

Or if she wants to please her parents, she should do cheer leading from now and then take up dance again later