How do I DO IT!!!!????

Question

When I was younger I was so much happier but since allot of c**p happened to me I turned emo boo hoo but now that I am getting things together I want to CHANGE!! how do I stop being emo insecure and just be a crazy person cos thats what I am inside!!!!

Answer 1

"how do I stop being emo insecure and just be a crazy person cos thats what I am inside!!!!"

Here's your answer:

stop being emo insecure and just be a crazy person cos thats what you are inside!!!!

Answer 2

stop using words like emo.

Answer 3

just try your best..........

Answer 4

First off, you have to look at it like that. If you keep yourself inside your only doing that to yourself! Everyone is the same! You have to believe in yourself to become better, it's just a matter of looking at things more positively =).

Answer 5

I am guessing you are a teenager!  welcome to puberty and expect to feel like this for the next few years.  you will grow out of this stage..don't worry.

Answer 6

take away ANYTHING that can cut u. make sure there are no needles. have all of your scissors and knives dull.

Answer 7

you sound exactly like me, except when i was young i went through alot of bad things and as i got older i became all "emo boo hoo". so one day i took a look at myself and realized this wasnt who i am supposed to be. i began think about life and about people. i started letting things bother me less(this DEFFINATLY took some time). i became content with the fact that i cant change that bad things happen to me, but i could change the way i deal with them and how i let them affect me. im a much happier person now and i hope in time you can become one too. if youd like to talk further you can always send me an email :].

Answer 8

I was just like you before, all sad and depressed but a real good friend of mine was talking to me, and she was saying that even though it seems impossible, there is someone out there that will always look after you. That person is God. Now I was baptized into christ burt never really had a relationship with him. But after i thought about it, i thought i'd give it another try, and it worked! My life is so much happier now! Even though I have some down days, if i just pray, God helps me overcome it. If you let him, he will do the same for you to. =)

Answer 9

You have to change the way you look at life, I look at it this way, I hit rock bottom, the only way to go is up!  If you have ever fallen so hard like I have, stumbles are nothing, keep a good attitude.  I am so optimistic it drives people crazy.

Answer 10

try too be more outgoing ; change your style on clothin and do sumtin diff. witt yur hair; if you have a "emo" name ; then get rid of it now ! goo to partys blah blah blah lol have mad fun !!! =D

Answer 11

use music to motivate you......thats what i do, and you can be whatever and whoever you want to be.

Answer 12

Make some friends. Go out to do stuff with your friends. Laugh! Have fun! Live life! You can get therapy too if you need it.

Answer 13

I feel the same exact way lol. But I bear through it by not letting people effect me as much, I'm not saying don't care just choose the things you care about carefully. People will be people but you have to tear yourself away from their problems sometimes. don't let the little things affect you or bottle things up. Get or talk to someone you trust or find something to vent in. Life is hard but you don't have to make it hard for yourself.  

Answer 14

just do it dont care bout everybody else have fun!

its not hard

~Ally♥Cat~

Answer 15

You are born emo.... you don't "turn" that way.  You just have to accept it and find other emo people to hang out with and emo clubs to go to.

If that doesn't work, try antidepressants and lay off the hair color.

Answer 16

Just get out away from your home, explore the open air, go out with your friends and if you have any hobbie,

for example horse riding:

start doin horse riding lessons

Without my hobbies i would be nothing hope this helps

jess  

Answer 17

stop dwelling over the bad things.

and get out of the darkness and find the light

seriously, have some fun

Answer 18

go to the gap or AF maybe even bananarepublic and soak up the preppy*ness!  

Answer 19

Wow... you just described my life..... I was SUCH a happy person. I miss the person my ex BF saw in me.... but ever since my parents filed for divorce, my BF dumped me, some c**p happened with my job, my friends gave up on me, and my new car broke down TWICE in the last 2 days.. I have been... ummm... not me, ALL summer. But you know what? The truth is that there Is a God, He doesn't liek this stuff happening to us, and he is going to save us from this. the more we go through the more we will see what he did for us on the cross, because eh suffered ALL of this c**p for us, and MORE, and we deserved it because We messed it up, not Him... that's about all that makes me happy anymore

Answer 20

Try really hard and move on from what happened in the past and accept it. Good luck buddy.

Answer 21

1 BE YOURSELF... TELL YOURSELF STUFF THAT CAN IMPROVE YOUR SELF-ESTEEM.. AND YOUR PERSONALITY WILL RISE UP  

Answer 22

It's natural for young people to want to belong to a group and have an identity, and being emo is just that.  Now you are older you need to have the confidence to be yourself and not follow fashion or trends, you can be you and crazy and people with either like you or not, but you need to be comfortable with who you are before other people will be.