How do i find my crush!?

Question

right i have a huuge crush on a guy i have only seen 6 times randomly, i think fate is trying to push us together,

over the past 3 months

i have randomly run into this guy twice at work, three times on the train, once randomly in a shopping centre and finally today at a LIBRARY?!

each time due to various reasons, (surrounding having a BOYFRIEND...which no longer is a problem) and my shyness i have not been able to talk to him.

Today i was about to enter the library and their he was at the door...we looked at each other he gave me right of way so i could enter, at first i was SHOCKED AND JUST STOOD THEIR STARING lol

then i just walked through as my heart was beating too loud! he seemed quite shy cos he looked at the floor

i wanted to say something but my heart was beating and with an instant he was gone

how can i find this guy! do i have to wait for fate to make our paths cross again? help... i wish i had the courage to spark conversation

i know he must be/live around the beckenham area...but WHERE!

Answer 1

awww...it can be said as love at first sight.....I mean...yes in a way it also looks like an infatuation...but this is partly love....you really like his physical appearence...plus..you're shy and you don't have any other sexual intention with him which is good sign....now let's be practical and think about you and him...you see him and vice versa...but there is no output of that..you have a crush on him...and he seems nice and shy...plus you don't really know wether he likes you or not and you also don't know if he has any gf.....so what I believe is...whenever again if you meet him, just look at his eyes and give him your loving smile...and if you are getting response...and if he really likes you..he'll surely try to talk with you...and as a girl..just wait for his response...but please give response so that at least he can know that you like him but you're little shy....and I want to tell you one truth of real life...the success ratio of "love at first sight" is 1/100000...hehehe...so if you are looking for a strong relationship with him..wish you best luck and you'll be one of those unique couple..best of luck...give your heart...but use your brain...and by the end...do whatever your heart wants to do, you'll learn a lesson..GBU

Answer 2

If he was at the library today, there's a good chance he'll return.  Hang out there as much as you can.  Otherwise, after having seen him so many times in three months, it sounds like there's a good chance you'll see him on the train or wherever no matter what you do.

Next time you see him, you MUST speak to him.  So be prepared.  

Answer 3

The next time that you see him (IF there is a next time!) you have to say something. Say "hey, I see you all the time, how strange!" And then introduce yourself. Maybe from there you'll see if you are interested and vice versa....

Answer 4

im right here baby

Answer 5

the only reason why you think you like him is because you've seen several time but at random times. if you saw him on a regular basis, you wouldn't be that excited about him.

Answer 6

may not work for definate, but go on facebook and search in all the local networks, see if he has a profile with a picture of him, then if he does, add him. then if he accepts, talk to him. simple as 1, 2, 3.

Answer 7

Well just wait til you see him again and when you do get courage and talk to him say hi and start making conversation. Try to get him to go with you and get a coffe or something. I know it's hard because I'm very shy as well but you have to get past that.

Answer 8

LOL you just have to ask him for his number or something

nice story though

Answer 9

talk to other guys you don't like, like him and learn to act natural around guys and eventually you will see him again and hopefully you'll have enough courage to at least say HI and an open ended question.

Answer 10

Do you know his name? do a myspace, facebook, and/or google search. Then you can find out if he is a freak before you contact him.  

Answer 11

Well I'd say your best bet is the libary to see him again? you can just make small talk I think for you that would be a good start.. best of luck

Answer 12

baby you're just gonna have to wait till you meet him again someday somewhere and when that happens DO talk to him, remember: we always regret things we didnt do more than things we did do

Answer 13

well i think that if its fate like you think it is, you two will meet again. you don't have to go looking for him because obviously you will find him again and when you do just go for it. if you can't talk to him then there is no point. so get the courage, take a deep breath and just say hey and start up a conversation. or have the first thing you say to him be aa compliment,guys love that. immediately he'll start talking back then get the info. sounds like fate to me. good luck!

Answer 14

I saw this girl twice in one day and regretted not saying anything.  Just go for it.  Don't matter if your heart it beating like crazy.  Just say Hi, haven't i seen you seen a few times.  I am blah blah.

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