How do i telll her?

Question

my brother is 25 is married has 3 kids...and is living with us...him and his wife fight constantly and so do the kids he dont even have a job and dosnt even try looking for one...im sooo tired of them already im drained!!! i go to sleep early, get my full 8 hours and im still exausted me my dad and my other brother are tired of them BAD but my mom is ok with it...i wanna tell her that everyone hates them there but idk how...she already kicked me out once this month and i dont want it happening again

Answer 1

"I think it time (Brothers name) moves out... look at him he has 3 kids, and a wife... They should have a house with their OWN backyard and a nice marriage..."

Answer 2

If ur 14 and ur mom kicked you out thats illegal, tell the cops and get put with relatives. Tell your brother he is a loser and get a job

Answer 3

If you don't want to be there get a job and move.You can't make them leave.

Answer 4

maybe gradually say little things like " maybe you could get a little apartment for you guys" or " isnt time to get a job yet? Maybe tell your dad to tell you mom and get him to change her mind.so that she can tell them to move out..

Sounds stressfull but may work.

Answer 5

just ask that she seriously consider the situation.  even if you dont want to move out, bluff, say that you will leave and break contact with them if you cant come to an agreement about them hahaha just kidding, that wouldnt be a good idea, try having a family meeting, brother and wife included, try to come to an agreement, if they cant agree on something, maybe your mom will see why, and then maybe she can take your side on this.  i dont know if this is what you were looking for, but its the best i got.

Answer 6

I think you should suggest to your parent's that EVERYONE in the house sit's down and has a meeting. & You all should tell your brother and his family how you feel about them fighting all of the time. Or if they don't want to have a meeting then just talk to your dad and tell your dad to try and talk to your mom about your brother them living in the house with you guys. Best of luck with your situation. Your brother should REALLY get a job. I know how you feel, because my uncle 24 and he lives with me & my parents and he's married with 3 kids. So my situation is similar to yours.

Answer 7

You need to have a talk with your mom but first talk to your dad and other bro. Let them know that it's not because you hate your brother but because he is making a hard situation horrible. At 25 married or not he should atleast be working. Tell y our mom that you don't want to move out and you don't want her to kick your brother and his family out but that something has to change. She knows he needs to get his act together but she can't imagine kicking her grandbabies out on the street.